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[–]Yerebeets 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Telling a girl she’s curvy can result in a negative response, if she’s feeling insecure about herself. Watchout the next time
[–]ExchangePowerful3225 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Commenting on their body right off the bat is extremely weird
[+]Weird_Stop_8673[S] -10 points-9 points-8 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Can’t leave it at that and not pose a solution
[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In the dating world, there isn't much point in trying to fix a bad first impression. Ya just learn from it and move on.
[–]Kitchen_Entertainer9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So true, once I lose a girls trust ain't no getting it back
[–]ExchangePowerful3225 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay here is a solution: don’t comment on their body right off the bat.
[–]jsbach123 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
NOT A SHIT TEST.
I'm not sure you know what a shit test is. A shit test is when a women is attracted to you, likely because you're confident and have your shit together, but she's wondering if those traits are genuine. So she throws a shit test like say something bad about you to see how you'd react. She wants to know if your confidence is the real deal.
Here, you're just chatting with someone online.
[–]chonglang_gaoshou 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are just rude
[–]Mo3 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
That's not a shit test, you were just a huge asshole and she's trying to move on and is willing to ignore it.
[–]Weird_Stop_8673[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Playing with fire says shit like this all the time and nobody calls him an asshole.
[–]jackzander 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude marketing his product doesn't show me the bad results
Damn that's crazy
[–]Mo3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
I do. Everyone who immediately starts off like this is a rude idiot. People have enough self-esteem issues these days. Who the fuck does that. If you're already writing her you don't care anyway. Do you really think making the girl feel self-conscious is a path to healthy success? It never even works on confident women, they are disgusted by behavior like this and rightly so, all you may get is some with issues.
[–]celestial-kitty2 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Hes a predator he just can’t tell. Stop telling them tho because they downvote you to death 💀 he goes around negging and expecting us to “make it normal” by humoring it as a real inquiry
[–]Mo3 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
I don't fucking care. Real men stand by their values. Let the downvotes rain.
1 downvote = 1 wanna-be
[–]celestial-kitty2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Im here for it, trust me. There are so many predators in this subreddit i realized dating is useless. All men do is normalize predatory behavior and collectively gaslight women. Even nice guys are just basic humans . Cops and men are twins to me
[–]Mo3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
There's real men around but they're usually not wasting time in this subreddit. I was active in the "seduction" scene 10 years ago, although here in Europe it was not necessarily about seducing but personal development, inner game, and psychology. That was the original purpose behind this shit here, but it's just gone down the fucking drain. The people who actually improved themselves left the scene at some point, and now it's mostly just a flood of men confused about their sexuality and with serious mental issues. Nice guys are the next iteration. Now the psychology at hand consists of manipulation and gaslighting instead of looking inwards.
Not our problem, but sad to see.
[–]celestial-kitty2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see no lies at all in your response. I’m okay with dying alone when I look at the fbi statistics on SA and incel violence I can see dying alone is my only shot at living a full, quality 84+ years of life.
[–]Momo_dollar 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah… he’s to clueless
[–]Weird_Stop_8673[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude really? calm down, literally all this thread does is vitriol instead of “do this instead next time” smh
[–]Mo3 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah because it’s kinda obvious what you should do next time
[–]klippklar3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
obvi troll post is obvi
[–]Momo_dollar 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You qualified her, she ignored you, after 3 days you messaged like a desperate puppy and she disqualified herself from you. It’s not a shit test. She’s just not interested.
The key is in the fact that she ignored you for 3 days and didn’t reply until you did. If she had said the door thing straight away, or within a an hour etc then yeah it would have been her idea of humour and you could have agreed and exaggerated or whatever.
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[–]DeliberatelyInsane -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Misplayed a bit there. Time for damage control. I'd go with something in the lines of "See yourself from my eyes and you'll see how beautiful you are."
It's important that you use the word 'beautiful', not cute or hot Or sexy.
I'm not saying this would certainly work but i see that as the best option right now.
Also, as others mentioned, commenting on their body right off the bat is not recommended. I don't ever talk about how attractive their body is until we've made out a little or at least spoken about getting physical
[–]DeliberatelyInsane 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just to add, avoid saying weaknesses. The word is negative by itself and in spite of the context, may not be always appreciated. Nothing should stop you from using "You got three things that I admire" Instead
[–]maxwe11 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha, have you actually had success with a woman before? This is awful.
[–]Weird_Stop_8673[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Show your interactions mate
[–]maxwe11 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Oh man what a sad response.
[–]Weird_Stop_8673[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
All talk
[–]maxwe11 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Oh boy, I’m 37 and have been around the block a few times mate. Women are not difficult - if you have value as a man (funny, attractive, charming) - are nice to them, clear with your intentions, and can hold a conversation - it is very easy.
Unfortunately in your case you escalated way too quickly and immediately commented on their body while using a word that some people equate to fat.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
"Are nice to them" - Yep you aren't "around the block" as you claim.
[–]maxwe11 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s merely a common saying to express you’ve had experience in a certain field of life.
Man you incel virgin types are sensitive.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're all talk for sure. And you're a 40 year old manchild watching cat videos on reddit giving dating "advice".
[–]maxwe11 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Or wait, are you saying you aren’t supposed to be nice to women??
If so - that’s even more hilarious.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Not in your context.
[–]maxwe11 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Haha. Okie doke big dog.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol you Redditards are so easy to anger and your go-to insult is always "incel". You know nothing bud.
[–]maxwe111 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Not angry at all. I follow this sub for the comedy, you see people asking how to text women, how to ask them on dates, how to basically interact in normal life…it’s sad and hilarious.
[–][deleted]1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Not really comedy if you fit the criteria... lool reject.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t waste too much time on her. Move on.
[–]Amkg2020 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say we'll I think I could pick you up 🤔
[–]invaderjif 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To me, you're a "Pella" brick door 🤨
[–]anon018274031 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Commenting on a woman’s weight is risky…
[–]no_not_this 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Especially when “Curvy” is usually obese. Curvy used to be different 10 years ago. Curvy 10 years ago now is “normal”. Then there’s fit, and skinny
[–]anon018274031 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah- people have reclaimed curvy to mean round. You have to specify hourglass or pair shape these days
[–]no_not_this 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or watermelon
[–]SaucerPass22 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Regardless the way out is to act with confidence and swagger. Make a playful comment, even slightly rude, about unlocking that brick door and ignore the rest. She will react with another test, you act again with confidence, then tell her you're going to x on y date if she wants to join and off you go.
Is she worth your time though?
[–]HowToStud 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She don’t like you champ. She’s deliberately giving you nothing to work with
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