Do you talk about sex during a date?

Informal_Fishing5729 · 2022-05-01T18:46:38+00:00

If you already know how to do it, then why are you still researching the topic?

AceCoE · 2022-05-01T20:23:46+00:00

Your post history is kinda sus but...for anyone genuinely interested - I take pointers from Ultimate Man Project on sexualizing interactions, which I've come to realize is key. I've gone through too many interactions where a girl might have actually been interested, but I kept it way too platonic and friendly so it went no where.

One question UMP brings up is "what's your opinion of (x) guys?" Usually x is the nationality of the girl he's talking to. Usually they're critical regardless of what guy you're talking about, because people focus on negative experiences. Then he would move towards breaking down her experiences in a way that spiked their interest, and then moved toward sexualizing (talking about crazy places you had sex, enjoying dominance/intimacy in bed) mixed with some physical contact. As a newbie I was always worried about offending a girl but once you've got that initial interest, most are more than excited to go there.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-01T20:48:23+00:00

Generally,I wouldn’t talk about it on the first date

fewbar2021 · 2022-05-01T22:24:13+00:00

Its something you feel out. There are a lot of things that factor into the answer of whether or not its appropriate or effective.

Only_Commercial_774 · 2022-05-01T19:43:25+00:00

I wouldn’t, I’d only talk about it if we already had sex

AgileDoughnut555 · 2022-05-01T23:36:02+00:00

I try to avoid that until it’s really clear she’s into me and even then, just hint to it. Ideally sex isn’t talked about until you have had it or about to have it. You should be comfortable talking about sex though if the subject comes up. I just wouldn’t bring it up. If she brings it up, tease her for it.

atomant88 · 2022-05-02T15:56:40+00:00

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Title	Do you talk about sex during a date?
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Date	May 1, 2022 6:40 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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