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[–]ResponsibilityKey427 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Their equivalent of 8-10 men.
High in: looks, wealth, status, etc just everything on point
[–]willgo-waggins 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well my girl is a completely solid 9.5-10. Professional. Gorgeous. Owns her own home and stuff. Doesn’t want any kids. Works hard and takes her serious life serious and likes to party when it’s her time. Athletic and super fit she is a top skier, tennis and golf player. Loves to backpack and travel. She is also 18 years younger than me. So I figure I’ve got a good read.
I’m 51, 6’3” and fit. All my own hair and it’s full. I am a medical professional and make a great living and have a side business and other investments money is not a problem. All but one of my kids are grown and the youngest is not far off and 50/50. I have my own home, drive a Mercedes, have a boat. I have multiple large friend circles and tons of business associates and acquaintances. Next spring I will be running for and likely win a statewide office for a large organization and step into that role. And I am a kind, decent, caring and loving person who tries my best to be the best human possible. And I’m pretty easy on the eyes.
I hope that putting a full description of both of us through to all the unmentioned extra essentials helps to make sense as to what and why attractions happen beyond an approach, a surface look or a quick spark.
When I say in this sub that you have to become the most of you to have the self confidence that allows you to pick and choose who you get, that is when you don’t have to ask this question any more. So any people settle because they won’t do what his necessary to take what they have and raise the level up to the ceiling they have.
Oh and my girl? Came after me the night we met. I haven’t made an approach first I. A very long time. When you exude the confidence of knowing you have that kind of value, they sense and feel it.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's quite helpful !
[–]1hatethis -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Positive feedback from others like you’ve probably been getting your entire life because of your genetics, assuming you’re not a troll poster, usually means you’re playing life on easy mode and are not exactly qualified to be giving advice to the average joe. I’d bet my savings you’re also coming from money and quite a lot too
Additionally you’re completely forgetting about short and long term mating strategies and how they differ in mate selection
[–]willgo-waggins 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was a skinny kid and made fun of.
My dad lost his small business when I was 10 and we were dirt poor. I actually helped support the household several times through my teens and twenties.
Had my first child at 23 and have had to bust my ass my entire life for every penny I’ve earned and to make it.
And I’m not talking about short and long term mating strategies because that wasn’t the question.
[–]AbbreviationsOld5833 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Many girls , women don't date guys who are hotter than themselves or marry them. I have asked it straight and that's what they said.
Their reasoning was plain and simple- " we are much more jealous than men if our spouses are better looking."
And that comes from women who could be easily 8- 9.5.
They also said that they remain vigilant for the initial part of the relationship until they they become comfortable. They they just accept that they got lucky. To be honest, even when a 9 pointer woman sees a 9 man, she will either think he is a fuckboi or he will cheat. And if he is rich and stable, that makes them far more paranoid.
Sorry, but this is what I have observed and heard syarught from the horse's mouth.😅
[–]kettlebell_workout 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The same type as any other number girl.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🙂
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Equally hot, interesting and entertaining men with good careers. Preference for social media famous guys and celebrities.
[–]rofnacla 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Private jet and a lambo are helpful
[–]klippklar1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Not as helpful if all as talking to her in a tactful, confident way and some body language.
[–]eieuxezyk 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably tall, confident, a sense of humor, neat, caring.
[–]silkPJson 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Obviously men who are 8-10s. So hot, tall, rich and social.
Good luck lol
[–]trendafili_i_zi 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the only right answer here lmao
[–]Secret-Historian101 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That tall factor always make me feel sad ...just if I were taller(5"6' current) things would have been different now. But yeah correct answet.
[–]SerRawrTheCat 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm 5'6 and there's really nothing we can do about it. I kind of embrace it. Just google celebrities with taller girlfriends if you're feeling insecure. It works for me. I even developed a fetish that way lol
[–]Secret-Historian101 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Its not about being insecure but just fact of life, we have to work 10times harder than taller people. Taller people get girls easier than us. Especially when we live in country with taller population (yeah that's me)
[–]SerRawrTheCat 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're right. But it makes the prize even sweeter if you know what I mean. The formula is still the same as mentioned above. Minus the tall part. I realized that no amount of self-loathing will make me any taller. So why not just embrace it.
it's also a big middle finger to the taller guys and society in general once they see you with the girl
[–]Secret-Historian101 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I could have dudes like you in my circle. Great point man
[–]ParticularCar3863 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
You're a moron you know
[–]silkPJson 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No u
[–]ParticularCar38630 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Lmao. What a fucking loser. Say that to my fist you cringy ass feminist.
[–]trashpandactual 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Having the balls to approach them in person and not being a weirdo. Most baddies don’t get approached except for online, dudes aren’t confident enough.
[–]Chance_Opinion_3636 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rich, fit and funny.
[–]Go_Brr 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not an incel and a loser
Aren't hot girls approached less cause a lot of men find them intimidating
[–]BettyBuilds 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Someone who cares about their interests, not just her looks/sex. Duh.
I feel like all questions here are asked by guys <25 cause you clearly don't get what matters.
[–]Then-Recording6836 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Psychology. Some Women want a partner that is lower on a scale from 1-10 than themselves. Some Women want a man who they feel won't cheat on them or that they will have more control over. They are willing to lose a few points here. There is nothing wrong with any of this, but peoples past experiences and psychology dictate what they look for in a partner. It doesn't always add up on paper.
[–]nosepickergabe 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Being able to put up with a princess mentality if they have it and having the confidence to not let them step on you. Remember women shouldn't be the best thing to happen to you. She shouldn't complete your life but instead compliment it. Her being in the 8s and 10s shouldn't change anything.
[–]CocoBabeNYC -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Normal guys
Goddammit
[–]Fr4nko_ -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Rich guys
Who do you think goes to all the overpriced pua-seminars?
[–]atomgt -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
6 lambos > 6 pack
[–]iano_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men who have confidence and a sense of humor. Not arrogance unless she has self esteem issues.
[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At least not guys who ask this stuff on reddit.
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