Is eye contact crucial for guys to approach girls? Would you still approach if a girl wouldn't look at you?

ZidaneLoire · 2022-04-06T06:57:26+00:00

Unless he's already super into you or a telepath, i don't see how standing next to someone is an indicator of interest.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-04-06T07:01:12+00:00

Eye contact and smile is probably best. Just standing close wouldn't be enough for me in most circumstances

mightymite88 · 2022-04-06T05:55:22+00:00

i always make the approach. if she's not into it she will let me know.

kttlkap · 2022-04-06T07:42:04+00:00

At the bar, I'd probably approach if she was cute, had some sexy clothes on, even if there wasn't any eye contact.

Cold approach during the day, hard to tell, if she wouldn't look and even smile.

Girls usually when they want some dude to talk to them, they'd do all kinds of things. I've seen it out other. It'd look obvious.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-04-06T07:52:30+00:00

Oh, definitely (in my case, at least). Reason is, sometimes women are afraid to show direct interest in a guy and want to seem like they aren’t chasing him, so you sometimes have to read indirect cues or test ambiguous ones to make something happen. Doesn’t always work out, but it works more often than not doing it.

Iistendipshit · 2022-04-06T12:20:54+00:00

If I like a girl I'll approach her no matter what she's doing. But if you want me to approach you you'll have to give me some clear and obvious signs.

REANIMATED-TROOPER · 2022-04-06T15:20:59+00:00

Most guys are scared to approach, they’ll maybe do it if they REALLY think you’re into them and viceversa

If you want to increase your chances of him approaching, then look at him and make lots of eye contact

If not, DONT be scared to approach them, it’s so rare and appropriated

I’ve had girls approach me maybe like 3 times in my life, and I’ve been into some of them and not so much into others

But your chances go from 0% to up the second u approach

good luck

Rndzle · 2022-04-06T06:47:05+00:00

I approach mainly when not too many people are around . Mfkrs is nosie af . If I’m going to get rejected I’d like to keep it private . But I approach any female that looks attractive to me . Shit I get rejected more than I get numbers but when I do get a number I go all in 💦💦

VDKay · 2022-04-06T12:31:01+00:00

huh... if you like him, why don't you talk to him? That's kind of a pathetic post to be in r/seduction

Delicious_Ad_328 · 2022-04-06T09:52:57+00:00

Personally, I think that the look a girl gives to a guy can be one of the best indicators of interest. There are those "ewww" looks but there are also the "i kinda like, please you approach me"Some of them give those looks so well that it feels very easy to approach them. You might still get rejected and fail but, I think I go in with much more confidence. .

singlecellfromearth · 2022-04-06T21:48:09+00:00

1st question, yes.

2nd question, most of the time I wouldn't and most other guys wouldn't as well. Setting is also important, where is this? Also, are you doing anything else to convey your interest?

If you're too shy for eye contact, would talking to him be better or worse? Maybe try writing a note and giving it to him? Something simple like, "call me (phone number)" or "you're cute".

Hook_me_up · 2022-04-06T06:50:29+00:00

If you're a woman, all you need to do is stand in his proximity. Even if he's half man, he'll work up the courage to approach, at some point.

But generally speaking, a good indicator of interest from your part would be touching. Never been touched by someone who was not interested

Paltenburg · 2022-04-06T09:38:08+00:00

Eye contact is a thing of movies.. When you do the approach you have to get her attention somehow.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-06T12:14:33+00:00

Proximity is an IOI, but only if he realizes that you were somewhere else before and now you're next to him.

However, this is not a guarantee that he will approach you as it's not that strong of a signal. I recommend eye contact, it's the most efficient signal.

VDKay · 2022-04-06T12:29:46+00:00

If I waited for girls to look at me, I'd have talked to 0 girls...

reversedbydark · 2022-04-06T13:25:15+00:00

Lurking about on these dating subs really makes question how anyone could ever be in a relationship with someone. This isn't funny anymore, this is truly absurd...damn.

Not long before humanity will go extinct, I'm certain of it.

Title	Is eye contact crucial for guys to approach girls? Would you still approach if a girl wouldn't look at you?
Author	Cathrin12
Upvotes	3
Comments	21
Date	April 6, 2022 5:51 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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