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[–]Chicagoj1563 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well, this is the classic problem most guys will have. Most places are not high volume in terms of attractive women. It's hard to find those places. Bars and clubs are the best because they can be high volume. Lot's of opportunities to practice or socialize, and in some cases, lots of attractive women to talk to.
You have to remember, most guys saying bars suck probably don't have game and don't go to bars. Make it a quest of your own. Find out where is the best places to meet women where you live. What is your mall like? Any beaches? Parks? Shopping areas? Concerts?
Go to these places and see if any check the boxes of a decent volume of women you can talk to. But, for most guys bars are going to be the best place. You can watch all the daygame vids in the world, but alot of these guys are traveling to ideal daygame cities that 99% of their audience will never get to. You have to find out for yourself where the places are in your location. Just don't get a defeatist attitude. "My town sucks, I can't ever use game here". You can approach anywhere. But, ideally you will need to find the highest volume places where you live. And if you find its sub-par, consider traveling to a nearby city.
This is all in the context of cold approach. Obviously, online and social circle changes things (but also have their drawbacks).
[–]Asperger1001 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I am wondering what people used to do specifically our parents generation. They seems to get married prettry naturally, no bar no club no all that stuff just know someone and get married and have a family. While we struggle to do ? Is that a gen Z problem?
[–]n0wmhat 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Its an abundance of choices dilemma. More than a few ago people rarely left their hometown so it was a simple as people pairing up in high school or church youth group. I think theres a different in society too. Women were expected to settle down with a man, and houses were cheap. Lots more "high school sweethearts" that got married back then.
[–]False_Bear_8645 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good old time ngl. I grew up in a small town and moved for my career/studies. It seems that all my childhood classmate are married or in a somewhat serious relationship.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You are overthinking dude. Approach in the street or wherever you see a how woman except your work , simple as that. Libraries, shops, coffee shops, streets, parks, malls, beaches, any place where you come across a hot woman just approach her.
[–]ThatGuy_Nick9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know opinions vary on the topic, but I don’t see why you shouldn’t be able to approach a hot coworker. You don’t have to say anything escalative, but you can still “game” them. In some ways it’s free experience. You might be able to get a coffee or talk over lunch break and you never know.
[–]imtrynagouni 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wont have my alcohol confidence tho :(
[–]poly_nerdy_panda 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
meetup.com is a great place, Zumba, yoga, or if you are brave enough barre/pilates 99% females and maybe 1 gay guy in those types of classes. A big mistake is trying to get dates from the gym. Just become the cool guy and invite everyone out to see who might be into you. I "dated" my yoga teacher older sister. Another option is to go to a local JR college in a child development class.. seriously its like 85% female.
[–]Zebrahead033 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was going to recommend just regular commercial gym. Fat chicks always check me out at the gym when I'm lifting weights. If only I was into fat chicks.
[–]MUhholen 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Unless through social circle, for me works nightclubs. Not really gonna find wife there but some solid girls come there sometimes.I average like 1 new lay a month even thought clubs are open till like 7-11. What helped me was after club closes I approach girls I talked to in the club and ask what's their plans, quite often they invite to house parties and rarely there's many guys. For this u have to be quite social and confident, don't need to be super model looking but good style, hygiene and how u carry urself gets u far
[–]noldi123 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
gonna find wife there but some solid girls come there sometimes.I average like 1 new lay a mo
clubs are open till like 7-11... AM? PM?
[–]MUhholen 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pm, they close really early cuz of corona
[–]Turbulent-Lemon-4015 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tanning salons - make sure you go there only when is busy
Eyebrows salons - check out different places until you find one with lots of girls going there
Beauty salons - Go for microdermabrasion or pedicure (yes, they do it for guys too)
Dance/Yoga/Reiki classes - go for free trial or pay per session , try different classes
Ask all the girls how they spent their free time so you will find where hey hang out
most rekiki girls don't shave after age 30 tho lol j/k most just trim
[–]Important-Quote9544 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
people that say club and bars suck just dont know what they are doing.
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
29M I’ve recently met women at breweries, clothes shopping at random stores, grocery shopping, in the elevator, music festival, bartender at bar, club, hinge, the gym, snowboarding, house party, hiking.
Tbh I don’t look for girls. I just do the things I like. If I see a pretty girl I shoot my shot.
I think looking for girls is unauthentic. Live your life and they come to you.
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