If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?

Snoo-62854 · 2022-03-12T10:30:05+00:00

Personally I would have started gym and workout way earlier it increased my self confidence and gave me an identity. I would have managed my finances well, like less debt. I shouldn't have missed opportunities to socialize and make friends.

If you are a guy, make sure that you have good girl friends don't expect anything from them apart from genuine good, honest conversation. Check your test levels if they are fucked up then you will not feel motivated for dating and sex which will impact your confidence. Make friends with guys who are good with girls, improve your life so that in any social situation you could add value.

seeronki · 2022-03-12T11:09:21+00:00

Avoided relationships like the god damn plague.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-12T12:34:19+00:00

1 - Hit the gym, lift heavy, and get the body of your life.

It’s the best investment you are gonna do in your life. Having muscles and abs really makes things easier initially at least, you will be given more chances by girls and your approaches will be initially received better if you look fit. You will also look better as time goes on, whereas other people your age will only go downhill in terms of looks.

2 - Be more daring… You wanna take risks more often than not.

Those things you thought were a bit too risky to try, do them. The consequences won’t be as big as you initially thought they’d be.

3 - Sexualize more, escalate to a kiss or sex first, and don’t become friends with girls you want to hookup with.

Listen the key to getting laid is to not be afraid to be a sexual man, and express your sexual desires.

Don’t tell women you have emotional feelings with them or that you want something serious, instead tell them how they make you feel sexually, how they make you go crazy, how they excite you, how they turn you on, how they make you feel so hot…

Remember to go for a kiss or sex first, relationship should come after you have had sex first with them enough times.

great_account · 2022-03-12T16:32:34+00:00

I would have broken up with my girlfriend.

b_a_d_r0b0t · 2022-03-12T19:27:12+00:00

Avoid wasting time on girls and focus on myself, my career, fitness, hobbies and just being happy being by myself.

AuremYT · 2022-03-12T11:12:04+00:00

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norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-12T10:59:14+00:00

Try to become the leader of a social club or the student government. I made this mistake during my undergrad and corrected it during my graduate degree. When you are the student body president, almost everyone knows who you are. Not only do people talk to you all the time, it's no mystery that it comes with a bit of status women appreciate, even if it may seem tiny.

tractorinballs · 2022-03-12T13:18:21+00:00

I could have batted in a higher league than I realized at that time.

TimOut1 · 2022-03-12T16:56:17+00:00

Well, I would bang every chick I get a chance to. Because you will be sorry for every each one of them you didn't bang.

martyr1337 · 2022-03-12T18:50:29+00:00

Go out sober and work out 5 times per week

Plupert · 2022-03-12T20:21:53+00:00

As a senior college student who got no action (partly due to low sex drive but mostly due to me being a bitch) 1. Lift weights, I’m very small and just starting to lift now I wish I did earlier 2. Realize my low self confidence was an issue and get therapy for it (doing that rn) 3. Realizing that the women all had flaws and not just being gobsmacked about how good they looked 4. Not being scared of rejection (still working on it) 5. Actually speak to people and not be afraid or whatever could happen (also still working on it)

HorusCok · 2022-03-12T22:30:02+00:00

Less drugs, alcohol and tobacco.

NervousGamedev · 2022-03-12T23:09:54+00:00

Given less shits about what people thought about me and assume everyone is attracted to me unless otherwise stated. Not like I was a 10 or anything but a little confidence would've gone a long way. Knowing when to take a hint is important tho.

Title	If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?
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Upvotes	8
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Date	March 12, 2022 10:25 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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