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TerminatorReborn · 2022-02-14T14:19:27+00:00

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willgo-waggins · 2022-02-14T16:48:36+00:00

Jesus Christ, no wonder the doomer meme has taken over for this generation.

“Texting stage”, “Talking stage”, “how long should I wait before i……”, “should I text her again”, “is this a red flag”.

Your ancestors are laughing at you. Stop being scared and stop overthinking. Ask her to meet up. If she says yes then you’re good. If she says any of the following:

“Hmm maybe”

“I’ll let you know”

“Not sure”

“I might have plans”

Or any version of that, take it as a “no” and move on.

Or, you can keep texting her and wondering about stages. You’ll friendzone yourself and some other dude will be filling her with cum and she won’t be thinking of you at all, at least until she needs a favor.

AHIR007 · 2022-02-14T14:32:47+00:00

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-dab8- · 2022-02-14T14:20:12+00:00

This is different for each person, based on personality, social conditioning, etc.

You can look for signals or test the waters yourself, but there is no clear cut length of time.

rickmackdaddy · 2022-02-14T15:46:14+00:00

As short as possible. Use text to setup the date.

throw_away_ugh-why · 2022-02-14T15:54:14+00:00

Meet up sooner than later!!

JXphile4 · 2022-02-14T16:10:22+00:00

Texting should only be used to set up dates or meet ups.

If you’re that far from each other that you can’t see each other every other day or every 2-3 days, time to move on.

dametime223 · 2022-02-14T15:37:08+00:00

Your main goal should be to go on a date with a girl. Seal the deal in the first day/two/three of texting w/her

PuroPincheGains · 2022-02-14T15:37:37+00:00

You don't get to know people through text, you do that in person. You should be getting off the phone and meeting up in person ASAP. However much texting it takes you to get the date is how much you should text. The longer that takes, the less likely you are to end up meeting. That doesn't mean don't text at all. You obviously need to make some small talk, banter, tell some jokes, and just overall let her get comfortable before you ask her out. However, that can be done in 10 texts or less if you get good at it.

TheGuyWhoPutTheBomp · 2022-02-14T15:52:23+00:00

1 to 4 messages for me

anything above that if I really enjoy talking to a hoe (which doesn't happen a lot)

NineteenAD9 · 2022-02-14T16:13:26+00:00

In the dating stage, texting should only be for logistics and quick convo. Everything else is just filler and unnecessary.

Dates and hanging out in person are where you need to put your energy.

2022-02-14T21:31:23+00:00

within the first 3 texts of mine i ask, if she's down it'll happen, i hate texting for a week without meeting up

Exmerus · 2022-02-15T00:19:10+00:00

If the person is a man, doesn’t matter. You can do whatever and you will make it last as long as you want. Doesn’t really matter if you, OP, are male or female.

2022-02-15T07:23:51+00:00

Long enough to build sexual tension and connection, but not too much to not get bored or too friendly. You want to have a pleasurable time with her in real world, not in senseless talking, so stay focused on your goal :)

Hariharan_VN · 2022-02-15T07:45:26+00:00

if you don't take steps soon , probably till eternity

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-02-15T09:15:50+00:00

It depends. Depends on how much she's interested in you, depends on what obstacles she puts in front of you, depends on how flirty you are to build her interest up. Depends on how free you are to take her on a date and Vica Versa. Depends on what activities does she like and what do you like to do. Depends on how fast do you escalate from conversation to a date and other many things

Wooden-Mission6578 · 2022-02-15T09:15:56+00:00

Long distance will be a problem always (imo) and texting should mainly be used to meet up or plan something (Which will happen) But I did text a lot of people for years and did meet most of them. Was it worth it? No. And pain did come with time

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