She told me she wants to stay friends but I want another shot

Crowddsurferr · 2022-01-16T20:19:40+00:00

She will respect you more if you move on.

SexyNuggetz · 2022-01-16T20:19:07+00:00

She will want what she can’t have. Tell her your good with being friends. Say that your sorry for acting so weird. It’s super unlike you.

breadpops · 2022-01-16T20:16:55+00:00

Move on.

WeakEmu8 · 2022-01-16T20:52:59+00:00

Next.

Don't waste your time. Dont

TrendyLepomis · 2022-01-16T21:40:32+00:00

temporarily move on to other girls. Youll know the exact moment she figures out she fucked up.

anasshm · 2022-01-16T21:57:27+00:00

Scientists discovered that it's easier to get out of a black hole than get out of the friendzone

Mrcopeland25 · 2022-01-16T20:32:31+00:00

Stop putting her on a pedestal. She as a woman can’t commit that’s a red flag. But also the fact that you can’t let it go and haven’t had sex with her even is worse. Move on bro

WolfKina · 2022-01-16T20:48:04+00:00

The only way to erase the bad impression you left is acting the right way now. And since she broke up with you, the right attitude is to move on. So focus on your life and go have fun with other girls.

Exes will only want you back when they see you grew into a better person and that now there are other girls wanting you.

merchant_of_mirrors · 2022-01-16T23:46:55+00:00

You fucked up accepting friendship, best thing you can do is move on and talk to other girls. You haven't even had sex with her yet so moving on should be easy. If she comes back, great, if not whatever

Hiko_Seijuro92 · 2022-01-16T22:00:34+00:00

Well you have two/ three options :

- Either you stop thinking about her and you move on . Still being in contact with her showing her that other women got into your life maybe she could return to you .
- Go to talk to her and try all you can once and for all to get her back which could cause the destruction of your friend relation
- Mind about her answer to know whether this was only an excuse. Unfortunately women are strong to lie to herself or invent lies ..

tehWizard · 2022-01-16T23:30:52+00:00

Just move on bro

Powerful_College_424 · 2022-01-17T00:19:32+00:00

Same thing happened to me this year context was a little different. At the end of the day if she wants XYZ and had the balls to tell you, even if the reason for it may or may not be true there’s nothing you can do or say to change her mind.

Plus, if she’s feeling this way one month in, would it have worked for 1 year? 110% no. 2 years? Still no.

neverinamillionyr · 2022-01-17T01:55:20+00:00

Don’t be anyone’s backup plan. It never ends well.

willgo-waggins · 2022-01-17T05:14:03+00:00

Dude I’ve got one of these going right now.

We started as FWB +. She wanted to “get serious”. She got scared of her own feelings. I backed it off to “friends” and FWB again. Meantime I enjoy myself and let her work through her stuff. We’re going away for a ski weekend next weekend. Shits fine and I’m still a free agent for now.

Give her her space and time and don’t over contact and play cool and you have options. She’ll figure herself out of it and you don’t sweat it.

wanlas · 2022-01-17T05:16:43+00:00

You went about it so wrong… you messed up, just move on.

EducationalPie236 · 2022-01-17T05:31:57+00:00

Okay friendship yes friendship is good best friends is better that's how you meet your mate lose the jealous seed lose the jealousy or you'll never truly be free or radical on stand individual and truly love rock on

XtremePeace · 2022-01-17T07:08:27+00:00

Ignore the shit out of her. Let her chase. If she doesn't, get with other girls or show interest to other girls in your social circle.

Bingo_is_the_man · 2022-01-17T07:52:17+00:00

You say you took time to work on neediness? What does that even mean if you’re chasing a chick who isn’t in to you. Working on neediness means having other options. Don’t waste your time in this, just move on and find a lady who likes you.

Cheshire51 · 2022-01-17T09:42:26+00:00

TheLawofAssumption · 2022-01-17T10:49:23+00:00

Cut out. Improve yourself. Focus on personal development. If she reaches out, then so be it. If not, you will find more as a result of your growth.

GroundbreakingAd8077 · 2022-01-17T16:13:32+00:00

Make sure she sees you with other girls, she might get jealous

Hvcktivis · 2022-01-17T17:08:43+00:00

Stop caring

sebastian_ramirez05 · 2022-01-17T04:33:58+00:00

These aren’t my words but they’ve helped me; they’re from a comedian named Patrice O’Neal. He says be righteously honest about yourself and your happiness without playing games and attaching your ego or happiness to women you’re interested in. This has helped me out a lot in getting out of the friend zone. Whenever a girl friendzoned me, I did not keep constantly calling or texting her to hang out or come to my place, I just did things with my friends by going out and having fun as well as talking as talking to other women that I’m interested in and go on dates here and there. Sometimes the girl who friendzoned chats me back up, I’m not in the same head space I originally was with her and we have casual flings and relationships. It doesn’t work all the time, but you need to prioritize your happiness after she says no. Good Luck OP

Title	She told me she wants to stay friends but I want another shot
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	14
Comments	36
Date	January 16, 2022 7:56 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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