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[–]flgeo7 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Goodness no. LinkedIn is not for trying to bang milfs. It’s a professional networking site. Don’t be a fool.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I disagree. The way he's going about it, he can definitely get laid from the situation. He just needs to keep it as indirect and professional as possible until she gives an indication that she's interested.
[–]grayperson_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She likely does not need you as a reference.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No shit
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So what say “lmk if u need anything” instead?
[–]grayperson_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Put in a link request.
If she links with you, message, "it was great working with you, maybe one day out paths will cross again."
Let it go.
Put your attentions elsewhere.
If she wants to hang with you she will make the next move.
[–]maplemario 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think this is good advice. I think the way he wrote it is ideal. This is completely indirect and unattractive
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I think you got the right idea. Keep it super indirect and professional until she gives you an IOI (outside of LI DMs) and then test her little by little to see if she's into you.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, right? I think it’s a good strategy. I could go in with hey ___ how’s the new job and make it more a convo or just do the one and done like in my post and see if I get anything back
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah exactly, keep it strictly friendly until she gives you a hint that she'd be interested in taking it further.
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[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Indicator of Interest, old PUA term
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[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bro you really need to learn how to use google lol
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[–]bee_eazsy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂
[–]Backheelfields 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
haha my boy smooth with it . hope u hit
[–]david10277 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Smooth as Sunday morning....bravo
keep it professional , 2months in you DM her and ask her how things are going in the new role Also add that you might be in the area...coffee ?? :))
My job is done here.. The bridge is yours scotty..
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks cap
[–]Delicatestatesmen -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lots of ! Plus this message doesn’t scream lets meet up or into you. Seems odd to offer a reference also. You need to go direct. But shitting where u work is risky also. Its better to say if your in the area lets grab lunch.
You need to convey your intentions and progress things forward. Also if shes older she will know what this means.
Fuk out of here with your reference gift.
Hahaha ballsy
[–]Alextryingforgrate -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jesus Christ op keep the work stuff on work sites find her other profiles and hit her up there instead. Ffs the last thing a chick wants to see is messages about hey let’s go for food through her LI profile. At least finding her other stuff shows her your clear intention that you would like to be more than work friends.
[–]PontusOfMars 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Considering LinkedIn has gone to shit regarding actual Profesional network building and become FacebookLite, I'd go for it. This is a decent message that won't land you on the proverbial SummerJam Screen. That being said, this is essentially an Instagram DM slide-thru, so it'll probably be a long shot.
If she messages back, try to meet up for coffee and go from there.
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