Started getting numbers but can't turn them into dates. Need advice.

SnooMachines1406 · 2022-01-03T02:27:54+00:00

Keep approaching its a numbers game i cold approach and made every mistake you did but i also got dates with beautiful women too. Women are flaky you just got to keep approaching it will work out. Dont listen to people who say “just work on your self” im telling you that will not get you laid just approach and be respectful and thats all you can do.

TheCaribbeanRedditor · 2022-01-02T15:56:09+00:00

A few things:

Most of your numbers will NOT turn into dates at this point. Some women will give you their number with no intent to continue the conversation later. Sometimes out of sheer politeness or awkwardness. Don't be too bummed out by it - it's the nature if the beast.
Make sure you have solid interactions- e.g. that you've said something that has sparked their interest, made them laugh, etc. If they haven't shown obvious interest, its unlikely that they'll continue the convo later
Up your messaging game. Your opening line should NEVER be "hey beautuful" , unless referring to an inside joke

RomanH101 · 2022-01-02T03:43:24+00:00

Bro… not even kidding, PLEASE PLEASE read this blog article. It’s literally the antedote to your problem:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-stop-being-simp-10-steps

ejvee · 2022-01-02T22:32:10+00:00

Girl here. I’ve been cold approached a handful of times and most of those times never bothered to text back. I don’t have any feedback for 1 and 2. 1 was just flakey. Nothing you could have done differently. With regards to 3: make a plan and tell her what the plan is. Tell her we’re meeting at this location, on this day, at this time. Are you in? If she even needs to lift a finger and make an effort to plan anything she’ll be out. She said no to ice skating - suggest something else at the same time or an alternate location at a different time. Regards to 4: don’t text ‘hey beautiful’ when you don’t know the girl. It’s a lot of pressure leading into a first meet up and usually girls want to be treated like equals, like you’re wanting to meet up with her to get to know her better and see if you get along and that’s it. No pressure of a hookup and/or sex.

WolfKina · 2022-01-02T03:08:12+00:00

Texting right after getting the number may seem kind of needy. Also, "hey beautiful" isn't a good way to start a conversation. I suggest you to wait two or three days before texting, then start the conversation more lightly to set up a date. A few days before the date may be good to have a more long conversation, to flirt and create some comfort.

Also, you should bear in mind that not every girl that gives you her number is interested in dating you. That is not your fault, so it is good to learn how to manage expectations.

Anyway, approaching and getting the numbers is the most difficult part, so you are already doing great!

Good luck!

itsthechamp2022 · 2022-01-02T07:53:03+00:00

It has nothing to do with you...some girls flake some don’t it’s all part of the game...I would say most flake...just keep doing what your doing, you’ll score eventually.

originalgainster · 2022-01-02T03:09:44+00:00

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RPslimjim · 2022-01-02T16:52:41+00:00

Stop cold approaching and work on yourself and your purpose. Women will be a by-product of self improvement.

Asperger1001 · 2022-01-03T06:43:30+00:00

I am new too. Where and how you approach could you share? Thanks a lot.

Title	Started getting numbers but can't turn them into dates. Need advice.
Author	originalgainster
Upvotes	25
Comments	46
Date	January 2, 2022 2:45 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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