Is it a good idea to sleep with a woman I am not attracted to just to get the ball rolling?

dark_helmt8 · 2021-12-28T02:48:31+00:00

As long as she knows you're in it as a casual partner and nothing more, and she accepts it, then you're. Your tegrity isn't worth a lay

Wi1liamGoh · 2021-12-28T01:27:21+00:00

Does she pass the "tingly feeling" test?

If you feel like you can still feel something in your pants for the lady then I say - you gotta pick yourself up from somewhere.

But when I was down bad - I thought about it. I had a relatively obese lady once hit me up - it just felt so gross in my mind (no offense to anyone who digs it , diff strokes for diff folks) and realized that there was a mental barrier I wouldn't stoop too even if we were the last two on earth. No tingly feeling whatsoever.

I'd rather be a monk.

She didn't cross the minimum threshold to trigger arousal/sensuality.

stevothecrab · 2021-12-28T01:34:36+00:00

Nope. Go after someone you like (“really like”). You’re wasting both parties’ time otherwise. Sorry to be so blunt

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-12-28T01:26:24+00:00

Depends on your ability to get over shit like that easily. If it leads to lays with attractive women, then you'll forget about it, but if it doesn't, then you'll regret it. It's pretty risky so it's up to you to decide if you want to take the risk.

SlyderKmK · 2021-12-28T05:48:13+00:00

Yes...believe it not..will build confidence when you're ready the next one you are attracted.

You'll learn to escalate things further, and know what to do...won't be as nervous the next time.

TheTruth221 · 2021-12-28T01:45:30+00:00

depends if u think she better than hands

letsgetrandy · 2021-12-28T00:59:32+00:00

That’s got to be your call, not Reddit’s. The one thing I can say though is that success breeds success.

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2021-12-28T01:34:39+00:00

I would try to make them regular fwbs if possible, but make sure they are aware of this and you aren’t leading them on, otherwise things could potentially get messy or awkward.

jbo99 · 2021-12-28T02:51:36+00:00

I did this and it was worth it. I say get in there. Break that slump

Pbear4Lyfe · 2021-12-28T04:05:58+00:00

Good ol slump-buster

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2021-12-28T05:36:05+00:00

I'd say if you're even remotely attracted to them, then yes. This could be good to get the ball rolling. I've done this. Usually the way it's happened for me is that it's a girl that looks nice on the pictures, but she's alot heavier in person. But I go for it anyway in the end. I think it helps to get some momentum. Just wear protection.

You also don't even have to fuck her. You could just do the date/pull/ have her suck your dick and finger her, if that's more comfortable. I've also done this. At least then I imagine the girl may feel less "used" when you don't want to see her for a second time. But maybe it doesn't matter. I don't really know.

Amazing-Ad6287 · 2021-12-28T05:57:30+00:00

Get the ball rolling?😂😂we’re men and if we’re not attracted to a woman, sleeping with her will not change a thing!!

CryptographerNice589 · 2021-12-28T06:02:54+00:00

Sometimes you just gotta dog some shit my boy

Title	Is it a good idea to sleep with a woman I am not attracted to just to get the ball rolling?
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Date	December 28, 2021 12:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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