Hello everyone! One quetion, and this made me think, i hear a lot of "you need to be high value" or woman go for status, or that we men need certain requeriments for woman to look at us or to get a chance, but, i was thinking, if that was the case, only the men woth money would have had sex or a relationship, but the reality is that only the 30/20% is a men with lots of money, if that was the case, why i see a lot of couples that doesnt look like they are rich (and poor neither) I hope ypu get the point of what im trying to say, reading here and other sites i heard that we need to gain X amount of money, have interesting things,because that increases our chances with women, but then i see the real life and i see couples, that the man doesnt gain 7.000.000 dollars monthly, and if only rich men wpuld get laid we already would be extint, dont you think? What are your opinions on this? I hear a lot of things like "improve" (wich is good) or get X amount of money, and in real life i see couples in every social class, so i think that having good money imporves our chances but is not so neccesary to get laid, as i see real life examples, thats a way of putting unnecesary presure on young boys that "if i dont have this X amount of money i cant get laid, im low value im low value" ...

Please correct me if im wrong, this is only a thinking from me, not a strict idea rhat i follow, is good to improve on every aspect, but i had an Ephiphany, here on social media the idea of "Get some money" or gain good amount of money and you will be interesting and have more chances with girls, have a Car, etc etc, and then ...... i see the real world, a lot of couples , do the men have a car? No, do the man gains 7 numbers? No, i think (im learning) is a way to out unnecesary pressure, and a sticking point (i dont have money so i cant get laid or if a girl shows me interest i will not take the step, because i dont have X amount of money)

Im open to change of opinion! And to learn

Pd: i think is good to improve,but while we are improving and we dont have X amount of money, what we do with women? I dont think that " im improving myself, i will not look girls or approach,or approach women who gave me signals because i dont have X amount of money" i think this is not good

Pd: is not a bad midnset to think that, until we dont get X amount of money or we dont have 4 business we will not get laid?