Asking for numbers without a conversation

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-30T17:57:53+00:00

Extremely ineffective.

HyakuShichifukujin · 2021-11-30T19:26:02+00:00

Wrong order of operations. As others said, even if somehow you get a number like this, your odds of it going anywhere are almost zero. A phone number in a vacuum is literally meaningless.

Get the girl to agree to a meet up, then get her number so you can coordinate logistics. You can definitely do that in no more than 10 to 15 minutes.

derrickinnit · 2021-11-30T18:02:57+00:00

You'll just pass out as being thirsty and the girls will prolly either not give you their number or they'll give you the wrong one. Not unless you are super attractive

agileipa · 2021-11-30T18:21:50+00:00

Even if they gave you the number and it was actually the real one the odds of her showing up on a date or coffee are next to zero. Women need a connection for compliance.

Live-Ad-6309 · 2021-11-30T18:31:04+00:00

You might get a number, if you approach a lot. But the numbers will be low quality. Highly likely the girls will ghost of flake on you.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-11-30T18:49:32+00:00

It’s quite ineffective as you are hoping they like you just for your looks, rather than for your personality. It’s basically like playing Tinder in real life.

Speaking with them for a while is more effective as they can actually feel something for you based on what you tell them/

devnasty009 · 2021-11-30T20:58:43+00:00

Ok I gotcha.

Walk right in to the coffe shop step 1.

Step 2) Go straight to the table she’s at Step 3) pull your cock out and lay it on the table like a salami meat being presented

EducationalMeeting95 · 2021-12-01T10:44:22+00:00

I don't think the girl will do anything for a guy Unless she wants to. IF you are a good looking dude with proper style and personality , the girl Might be attracted and hence wouls want to give it to you.

However most guys aren't like that We BUILD attraction through communication (verbal and nonverbal).

So it's always better to build attraction before asking something from the girl. Number/pull.

TheGnosionaut · 2021-12-01T20:59:48+00:00

It may work on very rare occasions, but will mostly fail. The reason being is you would knock her value down pretty low if she complied. Even if she thought you were cute, she'll trash talk you in front of her friends when you leave. That's why MM suggests you need to disqualify and isolate the target first. Don't listen to the advice of RSD and "natural game" gurus, they are all fluff and no skill. You need to win the group over first, especially if they are friends, because it will create a lot of complications down the line. If her social circle likes you, it's much less likely for you to get LMR. You need to DHV, it's simple. If Brad Pitt approached a random girl this way for instance, it would easily work because she already knows his value.

As daunting as it seems, the whole process should not take you more than 10-20 minutes (to establish a lead through a phone number or through social media). Just do it. Open, disqualify, isolate, establish a lead, build comfort, close. You will never date 10s unless you become proficient at this, all you'll do is amass low quality pulls.

Edit: you'll also never pull 10s without going on a date.

Title	Asking for numbers without a conversation
Author	Andress1
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	November 30, 2021 4:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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