How to stop the "If a woman like sex she is a slut" Mindset?

hopesy123 · 2021-11-27T20:05:42+00:00

Women who likes sex, likes GOOD sex, women who have experienced good sex (maybe from a past ltr or a fwb) knows how good sex can be and so are looking forward to having it with their new partner cause they KNOW it can be good and very satisfying.

DizzyxSin · 2021-11-27T19:41:42+00:00

You just have to accept that all women like sex and are "slutty" because it's the truth. Being a sexual being doesn't equal having a dark heart. My ex girlfriend was a freak in bed but she had the purest and kindest soul.

foghatyma · 2021-11-27T18:57:20+00:00

You are seeing your flaws, and you are actively trying to change them. You are a good man.

I think in order to overcome this, you need to find out why do you think this? You also like and want sex, do you think negatively about yourself too because of it?

stanthemilkman88 · 2021-11-27T21:12:51+00:00

Lol women are the worst slut shamers of other women.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-27T20:09:22+00:00

YouTube Johnny Soporno seductive reasoning 101.

Noob_elk · 2021-11-27T18:15:54+00:00

Well, if thats true, we all are sluts. Every animal that reproduces sexually. We are all wired to have sex because that is core to our survival. Due to societal pressure, some (read most) women don't show this side of themselves, but that doesn't mean she doesn't like sex. Even that "innocent" girl you know is horny just like other women are. Just because she doesn't show it you think 'oh, that girl is not a slut, she is very innocent because she doesn't like sex'. But the truth is, every single animal that depends on sex for survival, is wired to like sex (or be 'slutty'). This is how nature works.

2021-11-27T18:25:11+00:00

They’re going to believe what they’re going to believe. It’s no use wasting your mental energy. What other men/women think isn’t going to have any impact on who’s going to say “yes” to you

ericluo3 · 2021-11-28T06:07:15+00:00

Women like sex men like sex. If it’s intertwined into your culture and upbringing that women are thots if they like sex then come with an open mind idk 🤷‍♂️

DizzyxSin · 2021-11-28T16:42:12+00:00

Women have to be a sex loving slut to go to bed with you given no promises of security and commitment.

creativeoutlaw44 · 2021-11-28T19:26:45+00:00

Do you think that because you like sex you're a slut?

If so, why?

If not, why hold a double standard that you clearly don't believe in?

2021-11-27T19:58:25+00:00

I honestly see women that sleep with many men as a slut. No I am not a hypocrite I respect my body too much I don’t just fuck any woman that I can. I don’t prefer my women to do the same

FrivolousMood · 2021-11-27T19:37:25+00:00

Nobody with a brain says that. Stop listening to brainless people.

theosamabahama · 2021-11-27T20:06:37+00:00

Just don't have that mindset yourself. Women will choose you over the guys who have that stupid mindset. Then let natural selection take care of it.

2021-11-27T18:36:54+00:00

In my opinion its the type of sex.

If she likes to bang several guys a week, get choked, gagged slapped and spat on, she is slutty

Jay-Ames · 2021-11-27T22:01:25+00:00

I don't have that mindset. If i as a man can have sex whenever i want then a woman has the same right. But if you have those feeling try and realize where that feeling comes from.

It is a hardwired way of thinking that comes from the beginning of time. When humanity started, a man had no way of knowing if the child he was raising was really his child. There were no DNA test and such. A woman could easily get pregnant by another man, lie and her own man would almost never know.

Therefore a woman that was dating a lot was frowned upon. She was a higher risk to be a woman like that. Date her and you might someday unknowingly raise a child that isn't yours.

We no longer need to have such fears. They are outdated and serve no purpose anymore. We have technology to help us determine if the child is really ours. But because it became hard wired in our DNA we still feel and act upon it

Maybe me telling this makes you able to give it a better place in your mind and not be bothered by it.

Men and women are equal and both have the same rights.

Title	How to stop the "If a woman like sex she is a slut" Mindset?
Author	Agusmarvel96
Upvotes	8
Comments	22
Date	November 27, 2021 6:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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