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[β]Turnhate2greatness 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Definitely join a fraternity group because that will lead to more parties and social events. Yes, become friends with hot girls, because they will definitely hot friends that they hang out with so that will give you social proof. I only would cold approach even the semester is about to end, so that you donβt get a bad reputation.
But the most important aspect is that you self improve, get in the gym and be in good shape. Get better at dressing yourself, since you are a college student there are still many cheap cool looking clothes you can buy;H&M, SHEIN, Aeropostale, etc. Watch comedy podcasts and try to become more funny, not clown funny, dry humor type of funny.
[β]ooogabooogaboooga23 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope I completely disagree, as someone who rushed four fraternities this semester you should not rush for girls, you can meet girls anywhere bro. Join a bunch of clubs and intramurals and your network will explode I promise
[β]Vast_University_1989 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hazing is bs
[β]tellythesloot 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just cold approach as much as possible as often as possible. Fail often, fail hard, and when you feel like a dejected degenerate autistic loser fail some more. Eventually you'll shed your old Virgin autistic self and become a smooth operator plowing through fields of poon like a tractor.
[β]CLAPPERSFARGO 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should write books
[β]Narcan9 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fields of poon. The unwritten story of Vietnam.
[β]crazywaytolive 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Definitely do all that, but again most donβt want to do the hard work. Get in the gym πͺ, dress better, work on your skin care, go to the barber π weekly to stay looking sharp. Itβs hard but thats what it takes to become the better version of you. Try to make girls laugh π, watch comedy movies and podcasts. You basically want to be like Cary grant, Steve McQueen and James Dean. Watch them and copy everything they do.
[β]kaisoren 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Watch Craig Ferguson
[β]150420throwaway 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
laughs in U.K. university/college society culture being nothing compared to the US
[β]the-original-chad 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
GET A BETTER BODY BY WORKING OUT. Itβs literally the best way and easiest way to get attraction. The βgameβ will come with experience
[β]Maxpunish94 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
During college I was able to get over a 100 Lays in a small 100.000 City town. Here are my takeaways:
Do not create the perception that you are the guy who hits on every girl and gets rejected
Getting laid with a hottie helps your reputation and works in your favour. Make sure the rumor spreads
Be nice to all girls, even the fat ones. Than they do not talk badly about you
Have a lot of Preselection Stories in your Instagram
[β]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
by talking to girls you like wherever you see them and flirting from the beggining in a sexual way and escalating with them
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[β]Looksmax123 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not true
[β]Internet_Frank 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just go sit next to the hottest girls in your courses and introduces yourself. Then you can talk to the ones you like when you see them on campus
[β]ruser_void 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get on YouTube and check out fresh and fit. They explain how to do this
[β]kaisoren -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fraternities are 100% worthwhile, but donβt do it to get laid. You get so much more out of it than that because itβs a community and a business. Youβll grow as a person and thatβs why you would benefit to join.
[β]Narcan9 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask girls if they want to study anatomy and physiology. π
Just get involved and be social. Get a group of friends and do stuff. Join a club. Play some rec sports. Do a movie night. Go out for pizza. Go to an occasional party.
One of the girls will warm up to you, then start dating and move it forward.
[β]sad_mija69 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
don't chase girls in bars or gyms, that's such a turn off and is really creepy
I'd suggest you instead to dress better, get a haircut that fits you (a fresh cut is such a turn on, at least for me) maybe use Tinder on your area with the hope of finding someone from your own college lol
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[β]sad_mija69 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
hmm 6.6 it's a nice height... i'm thinking a couple of things...1) your friend must be really attractive, 2) he might have a nice dick lol, 3) he might invited them a few drinks and was a chill/funny guy (funny guys are a little bit more confident and confidence looks very sexy in a man, ofc without being cocky )
Some guys just have that magnetic 'charm' i guess
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm decently attractive, and have went home with a lot of girls from bars.
https://i.imgur.com/ii6hoDs.jpg
I stay in shape though, and look a lot younger than I am.
[β]truthbomb999 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just go fuck a fat girl
[β][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And if they always reject you?
[β]truthbomb999 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go into monk mode, hit the gym, and focus on yourself
[β]SummerEarly -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude focus on yourself and getting a degree. Focus on becoming a better YOU. Both my roommates are in frats and are getting laid but will probably not graduate due to their toxic routines of party, sex, drink, rinse and repeat. Is it really worth it?
[β]SummerEarly -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not really because once you become a sex addict thatβs all you want and it makes you lazy and kills motivation. Just from what Iβve seen.
[β]Appropriate_Ad3327 -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How tall are you?
[β]Internet_Frank 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Lol, why are you asking? xD
[β]Appropriate_Ad3327 -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Height matters
[β]Internet_Frank -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Its not relevant to his question! Height alone doesn't determine your success rate with wonen
[β]Looksmax123 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's still a relevant variable.
[β]Ryo-saki 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Fraternity group of ?
[β]Ryo-saki 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What do they do? I join for Martial arts. My mate joins for a business skill.
[β]No_Ask_132 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The Essenes of game in college comes down to popularity. Graduated last semester and really when I look back at all the girls I hooked up with or even became friends with period is because I played on one of the sports teams. I was invited to many parties and was constantly meeting new girls. Plus not to mention night out on The weekend and what not.
For college just think friendly and social, not gamy and approachy. The slow farming method where you build good positive feedback with many people ( guys and girls) and generally have a good reputation and vibe will work more to your favor long run than the sniper approach method. Not saying you canβt cold approach but honestly itβs not necessary and may actually hurt you in a setting college than help you.
Hope this helps.
[β]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do all three.
Join any sort of group or club or organization. Being apart of something is the best way to get social proof and meet people. Also work on your physique and style. Dress well and hit the gym all the time, cause pretty girls want the whole package.
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