What to talk about with a girl on a date?

Mshalopd1 · 2021-09-07T18:38:31+00:00

What do you like to do in your free time?

PaqS18 · 2021-09-07T21:01:29+00:00

Talk about stories of yourself. Vacations you’ve been on, funny stories of something that happened in your life. But don’t forget to let her talk also, about herself, ask questions. Flow with the conversation.

UseTerrible4260 · 2021-09-07T22:28:38+00:00

Everybody's answers are like it's natural for everyone to talk to ppl. It's not the case, talking is a skill that requires empathy. You have two choices to improve yourself, 1. Work on your empathy 2. Work on your talking skills. Sometimes both come together and the only way to work those skills is to practice.

If you go out sometimes, try and go talk to ppl, you will discover how amazing there lifes are. You can just begin by asking questions. But going question after question can be somewhat awkward and you may have to find interest at some point.

But that's not hard. If you come on reddit and read some post sometimes, you can remember that OP and the people in the commentary section are real life ppl. If you're interested in their posts and comments you may be able to be interested in them, you may be able to be interested in anyone.

Horny_Blue_Eyes_Guy · 2021-09-08T14:00:59+00:00

Ask her about what inspires her, what excites her and makes getting up worth it? Ask her what matters to her, what her dreams are and what morals are important? Ask her what her favorite movies are and why, what her favorite foods are and where she would like to travel of money and time were no object. The objective of a date ia to determine compatability not to get laid, just my opinion. Ask about her and determine if she fits the bill or not, dating should be fun and easy.

RealHumanBeing2020 · 2021-09-07T20:28:02+00:00

Food. Tv shows. Traveling. Etc. Just ask her questions and listen.

Peach_Leaves · 2021-09-07T18:40:27+00:00

Seems like all your post history involves fitness, why not find a woman that also is interested in fitness.

rage1212 · 2021-09-08T03:48:40+00:00

Your Pokémon card collection or the guy who inted your last lol game and all the things you'll do his mom.

Brandonva804 · 2021-09-07T18:35:01+00:00

“I simply don’t find females interesting to talk to”

Is why I won’t give you any advice. Best to figure out why you are not interested before asking for advice

aneptuniangrl · 2021-09-07T20:43:23+00:00

Well one, don’t use the term females when referring to women. It separates you even further from understanding they are human beings. Two, if ur compatible with someone u can virtually talk about anything and they will respond. I find myself talking less and less bc I don’t care to talk to ppl I’m not really interested in. Maybe seek out talkative women that will fill in the blanks where u can’t. If ur compatible with her, u will find the energy to talk. What I noticed guys barely do nowadays is ask questions about girls. Get to know HER. What shows she watches, what hobbies she’s into. In inquiring about her you’ll find shit to talk about. Other than that, good luck charlie

AelfredRex · 2021-09-07T18:58:23+00:00

What do we all have in common? Life. Start from there.

hunkyboy46511 · 2021-09-07T20:51:51+00:00

Make a little list of things you like to talk about, either on a slip of paper or in your head. Try talking about those things next time you’re on a date.

If your date doesn’t enjoy talking about some of those things and doesn’t contribute to the conversation, then she’s not the girl for you, so friend zone her.

If she does seem to enjoy the conversation, then maybe you’ve found a winner.

Good luck!

Dramatic-Wishbone364 · 2021-09-08T00:15:11+00:00

What's your body count?

2021-09-08T03:56:15+00:00

Just let her talk, and respond thoughtfully.

Independent-Drama586 · 2021-09-08T07:04:11+00:00

Ideally you just a free flowling conversation talking about anything, make jokes, share stories ect. If that doesn't easily happen and things seem dry you should try to talk about things that are emotionally relevant. This could include dreams, passions, travels, adventures, sexual stories, date stories ect. Boring get to know you talk is also good once you can tell she likes you but you will often get short dry answers if you try before.

bigbootynopussy · 2021-09-08T13:48:29+00:00

Ask her what she was like in high school

mystylejay · 2021-09-08T15:17:03+00:00

To attune the answer to you, we need to know:

-is this your first date?

-if not, there was smth in your last one that went wrong and made you concern about small-talks?

-if yes, well...first of all CONGS;-)

burakbenxd · 2021-09-08T16:55:00+00:00

Her lol. People enjoy talking about themselves, don’t make it seem like an interview, and try to relate or chime in on some points.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-09-09T03:09:24+00:00

Well the key of a date is to be genuinely interested in the girl you are meeting, if you already say that you don’t find her interesting that should already tell you that it’s not meant to be

Title	What to talk about with a girl on a date?
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Date	September 7, 2021 6:31 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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