Idk how true all of this is. Do really most women choose looks as number 1?

Exciting-Candle2753 · 2021-08-17T19:17:17+00:00

I hate the blackpill extremists as they're so depressing, but lets be real.

Of course a girl isn't gonna wanna sleep with a guy if she isn't physically attracted. It's a pre-requisite. Same as it is for us men.

Even dating coaches acknowledge the blackpill nowadays (troyfrancis, tusk etc) - Like they say themselves, there has never been a time where the good looking guys aren't wanted by women

What I would say though is the blackpillers take it too far. And they also don't account for the fact that not every single girl has the same taste when it comes to looks

AelfredRex · 2021-08-17T20:53:17+00:00

No, they don't. It's energy, and that's mostly the way you hold yourself, your personality, who you are on the inside. Positive energy attracts, negative energy repels. Incels are pure negativity and women avoid them like the disease that they are, but in order to protect their screwed-up egos they have to lie to themselves and claim it's all about looks.

LaidBackAndRowdy · 2021-08-17T19:28:52+00:00

Incels.wiki? 😂😂😂

The reason incels can't get laid has little to do with the flaws they perceive about themselves.

The reason they don't get laid is because they are mentally weak, pathetic, self-pitying losers who use "facts" like these to justify their own laziness and lack of effort to improve themselves.

Nobody, man or woman, wants to spend any of their time around pathetic, delusional people like that, let alone see them as romantic partners 😂

It's just incel's excuse to stay angry, sad, and mentally weak, because that's a hell of a lot easier than going through the work to gain self-awareness and self-acceptance.

The work is fucking hard. The hardest shit I've done in my life. And it took years, along with ongoing maintenance to this day.

Incels are too weak and lazy to do it. That's why they don't get laid.

As a teenager, I was the fat, insecure, angry, unsuccessful loser.

Even though I worked hard to improve my outside appearance, I still couldn't get laid until I did the internal work, so this is all bullshit. If you're a loser, you're not going to get laid, no matter what other attributes you have.

I was 6' 1", successful, and conventionally attractive, and I still had zero success with women, while my shorter, less successful, less attractive friends were slaying.

If you do the work, women will be attracted to you precisely because you're self-fulfilled, don't need their validation or approval, and treat them like human beings, rather than targets.

What you perceive is lacking about yourself right now won't matter, because you will have the #1 most important thing all those other guys don't have. Real confidence.

The kind of confidence, fulfillment, and self-direction that comes from facing your demons, conquering them, and coming out on the other side with respect for yourself.

That's something that can't be bought or faked, and you can't learn it in a pick-up artist book or course.

There are no short-cuts. Do the fucking work.

Instead of going to therapy, facing their traumas, flaws, fears, and weaknesses, working to improve themselves, accepting themselves, and finding fulfillment outside the validation and approval of others, incels just whine and grovel for acceptance by women, and then lash out in anger when they don't get it.

That desperation to be accepted is the #1 reason these losers can't get laid.

Why? Because men who are desperate for a woman's acceptance are fucking dangerous.

I have no pity for incels, just like I had no pity for myself.

The answers are staring them right in their faces, and they are so lacking in self-awareness that they still can't see it.

They'd rather cling to their excuses than fucking do anything about.

thethrowowoy · 2021-08-17T19:30:41+00:00

Everyone can work on looking better.

Get to the gym, eat well (and enough), go for a walk/run as much as possible, buy clothes that fit, moisturise your skin, tidy you hair/beard, stand with a good posture, walk with confidence...

99% of men have the power to change the above. Your competition doesn't need to be against the chiselled jaw greek olympian... it just needs to be against the you of yesterday.

Keep up personal improvement and women will start choosing you who wouldn't have chosen you yesterday.

thelambofdeth · 2021-08-17T23:39:53+00:00

Ofc they do. The cOnFiDenCe rebuttal is just gaslighting

Title	Idk how true all of this is. Do really most women choose looks as number 1?
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Date	August 17, 2021 7:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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