Should I get an escort at this point?

It-s_what_it_is · 2023-10-31T22:54:54+00:00

I almost was in the same situation as you are now, but I was 21, made the choice to not get one because I "believe on my own potential"...now I'm 29 and still a virgin. If I could be 21 again I would do everything different.

its-probly-over · 2023-10-31T20:54:00+00:00

Yea do it

MakeSmash0 · 2023-10-31T21:27:44+00:00

It's no ones business but your own.

Make sure you're not too inebriated and make sure you keep your clothes in direct line of sight at all times so she doesn't have the opportunity to rummage through your shit. Try to find a chick with good reviews.

Know what you want to do before hand and communicate it to her directly. She can guess and try to anticipate so be open to her moves and direction because she knows a lot more than you do in this area.

But yeah. Keep a direct line of sight on your shit dude. If something goes "missing" when you go to take a piss or wash off, you're going to be screwed to get it back.

Don't leave your clothes in the bathroom or beside the bed.

Make sure they are in line of sight to both the bed and the bathroom at the same time.

Do that one thing and the risk is super minimal. Enjoy yourself without regret call it a celebration of being alive dude.

If you find reviews of local girls online you'll almost guaranteed have no issues though. When something sketchy happens it's well noted and all the guys communicate on that shit. Regulars anyway.

sahyl97 · 2023-11-01T04:07:21+00:00

Why not ? Sex is meant to be enjoyed. Have fun.

NumerousTheory5735 · 2023-10-31T21:35:33+00:00

Yes bro I recommend it.

Honestly piv sex wasn't anything special if you have a fleshlight, but getting head was a good experience

Salt_Vermicelli9788 · 2023-11-01T12:13:10+00:00

Go get an escort if that’s what you want. If you reached your mid 20s and got nothing that means you’ll aways be paying for it one way or another. If it was going to happen on its own without some kind of transaction taking place it would have happened for you in high school or college/university.

tbmnitz · 2023-11-01T04:41:06+00:00

You should only go to an escort if you want to experience sex for yourself, not for some imaginary woman you haven't even met who doesn't like virgins. You could just lie about being a virgin. Plus going to an escort once or twice won't suddenly make you good at sex. It'd just be a waste of money going for that reason.

Only go because you want sex, not for any other reason.

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2023-10-31T22:11:13+00:00

Don't do it if your reason is that you think it will make you more attractive to women.

inkybreadbox · 2023-11-01T01:17:33+00:00

I would pick a virgin over a man that slept with a prostitute. Every time.

YearnsToDestroySun · 2023-11-01T07:51:33+00:00

Start with a sex doll.

I'm Chad with son and slowly going toward MGTOW because I can't find a female that has personality worth merit.

I run Sexdolltherapy sub as well.

Maybe if you need to break virginity do an escort? But for longterm stuff...ya sex doll.

Cupc4ke-F4ce · 2023-11-01T00:39:40+00:00

To a man considering losing his virginity to a prostitute: Prioritizing sexual experience over emotional connection is a shallow reason. Many women, myself included, would cherish being a man's first, just as I did with my husband. Waiting for that special connection made it a profound and bonding experience. Focus on creating a secure environment, including physical, financial, and emotional security, and the rest will naturally follow.

On a more educational note. There are so many things you can catch beyond what's mentioned normally. As a dental hygienist I've witnessed men and women with oral cancer in their 30's from HPV do to oral sex. It's important you stay safe and wait for the opportunity with the right person. You will regret catching something and lessening your chances in a meaningful relationship in the future.

Walnuts_TheBigNut · 2023-11-01T10:17:57+00:00

If you're truly a sub5 then sure. You'll find out sex really isn't all that you've made it out to be in your head. Saying that, you'll always want more because it's fucking great.

Paying to lose your virginity might take some thought. It's your own life and choice.

Happytallperson · 2023-11-01T08:53:39+00:00

There is nothing magical about vaginas, having your penis inside one won't magically change you. If you think that going to an escort will somehow change you, that is a bad reason to go.

If you want to experience having sex, and understand that is all it is, then that is fine,.

If you are relying on this to be a lifechanging experience, it won't be. Sex is great, but it isn't magic.

bakkdead · 2023-11-01T06:32:18+00:00

Mauf066 · 2023-11-01T14:40:25+00:00

I'm older than you, but I honestly don't see the point. The only real reason I can see is that it can give you a bit of practice if you're anxious about the act of sex itself. But if your reasoning is that women don't like virgins, the underlying reasons won't be solved at all by going to an escort, you're just "technically" not a virgin. You might as well just lie if you're going to try and get away on a technicality.

Every-Ladder-6101 · 2023-11-01T15:41:20+00:00

you dont have a note on your forehead that says you are a virgin or you see escorts just dont tell them

operation-spot · 2023-11-01T22:11:57+00:00

Just don’t tell women you’re a virgin and don’t worry about it. It’s a lot more likely that you’ll end up regretting that decision than you somehow gaining confidence and suddenly having the sex life you’ve always wanted.

spunkystoic · 2023-11-02T00:50:23+00:00

As a guy that has seen many escorts over the years, I'd say go for it.

Just a few tips:

Number 1: be respectful to the girl: there's a lot of very bitter individuals on here that love to talk shit about sex workers, even though they're the only women that will sleep with us ironically. Most of these girls, especially the mid to high end ones, are: friendly, more mentally stable than the guys on here, have their own houses, and have their finances well in order. If you're respectful to her you'll also likely have a very good time.
Do your research, talk to the girl first. If you feel there's a little chemistry via messaging then that's the one you'll likely have the best experience with... DON'T just go for the rude hottie over the nice "girl next door" type escort that is nice to you.
Don't get into moral conundrums over why you're doing this (if you choose to). Again there's a lot of bitter men on here that view looks as the only form of exchange that's valid...this is hyper naive and pretty much based in Disney/Anime/romcoms....the cold hard truth is that every relationship is transactional in some way (that doesn't make them any less meaningful)...even "chads" pay for sex by trading their looks, using money to get what you want is no different.

Title	Should I get an escort at this point?
Author	greenlight144000
Upvotes	16
Comments	63
Date	October 31, 2023 8:52 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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