How do you guys act when a woman you are seeing disrespects you?

Revan19991 · 2021-07-30T14:54:34+00:00

You talk to her in a calm manner and let her know you feel disrespected and why it’s disrespectful to you.

BigFunnyBigMoney · 2021-07-30T15:21:34+00:00

Call her out. Say it wasn't cool and leave her room to apologize. If it's sincere, thank her and move on. If it isn't, put more distance between yourself and her, in whatever capacity that suits you.

The problem in what you're saying is that this girl has no idea what's wrong so can't own up to it, but you're still mad at her which is 100% unfair. Sit her down over some tea or something and tell her "hey I didn't appreciate that it actually really bothered me".

Don't fight, collaborate, it's you and her vs. the problem not you vs. her, if need say something like "do you like it better when we discuss or when we fight?" and when she says "discuss" say "me too, how can we fix this?"

Agreable_Actuator84 · 2021-07-30T15:17:24+00:00

You should tell her in a calm manner and if she gets defensive just say- ‘we aren’t here to discuss this or argue about it. I am just telling you what is and is not acceptable behavior. ‘ the refuse to discuss it further.

Meanwhile, plan for a graceful exit. Not saying it will come to that, but If she truly doesn’t respect you enough, your only real option is to leave quickly and gracefully.

You are only as strong as your other options. If you are desperate for her approval, and truly believe you will never find better no matter bad she treats you, you will always be her doormat.

MrNobody___ · 2021-07-30T23:38:27+00:00

The first thing to do is reflect if she was really disrespectful or you're just feeling disrespected.

A girl can call you an asshole as an insult or as flirting. She can do it while flirting and you feel disrespected because your abusive parents called you an asshole all the time, and it's understandable that you feel mad but at the same time she isn't responsible to know everything about your life if you guys haven't already discussed it.

And I'll have to agree with everybody, tell her in a calm way why that matter to you. The problem is if you keep telling her the same thing everytime you meet (butthurt) or if you keep accepting the same error over and over (pushover).

1keentolearn12 · 2021-07-30T19:35:18+00:00

It’s best to tell them and not let it slide

2021-07-30T20:40:24+00:00

Yeah just tell her what you didn't like, and why. Don't threaten or set an ultimatum. But if she keeps it up you may need to consider if you need to make moves.

harvey_croat · 2021-07-31T12:30:32+00:00

Put the fence around your house my friend and show the clear rules.

autogizmo · 2021-07-31T03:02:40+00:00

Tell her calmly that she disrespected you, and why and how she's disrespectful. If she sincerely apologized, accept it and move on. However, if the disrespect is repetitive, just walk away.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-07-31T06:16:12+00:00

I'm a soft dom. I usually put them in the corner and tell them to think about what they've done, lol

2021-07-31T08:06:09+00:00

I have no clue what's it's about. But talk to her. That's the only thing you can do so she understand that she hurt you. How else can she know? Or just stay with that other girl that didn't disrespect you. But if you already went to another then why stay with this one?

Title	How do you guys act when a woman you are seeing disrespects you?
Author	VanillaCider2021
Upvotes	15
Comments	27
Date	July 30, 2021 2:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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