How do I flirt back to a girl without feeling like a creep?

JiggabooJohnny · 2021-06-11T17:05:14+00:00

Try to make it joke, usually while flirting we as guys are scared of the outcome but the worse they really can say is no. So the faster you learn to not take it serious, the better you’ll flirt.

cinder_16 · 2021-06-11T19:38:35+00:00

Fam you’re going to a “picnic park drink-up” and you’re worried about coming across as a creep?

Drink up, ease up, crack jokes and get into it, because if you don’t someone else will - especially if she’s attractive, she’s probably expecting it.

RedLantern- · 2021-06-11T21:10:35+00:00

By thinking you are creepy you become it.

Dodechaedron · 2021-06-11T15:41:11+00:00

By being funny and receptive to her signals and remember A) be light and not too serious, B) have fun C) sex is only a remote possibility at the moment so don't focus on it and don't get caught staring at her bits or bare skin;

peaceful_friend · 2021-06-11T16:59:29+00:00

How do you find “picnic park drink ups”? Sounds fun.

Exact-Librarian-8602 · 2021-06-11T22:14:36+00:00

Yeah, … just be you; she clearly liked you last time. Just try to remain calm, collected. Breathe dude, just breathe.

aznkor · 2021-06-12T03:36:59+00:00

Look up Alan Roger Currie's "Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're Really Thinking." It's a bit extreme, but it sounds like you're currently on the opposite side of the spectrum and you might find value in exploring how to be boldly flirty.

LovingCouplesSexLife · 2021-06-11T22:17:31+00:00

Usually any guy that worries about seeming like a creep isn't coming across that way. It's the guys who don't worry that are usually the creeps.

JoeTheExotic · 2021-06-12T01:07:17+00:00

Something innocent is just exaggerating in agreement or disagreement of something she brings up. ‘You like cats? Oh I don’t know if I can talk to you anymore.’ Not the best example, but just be playful and exaggerate stupid shit or ordinary topics in a conversation.

Ashido_Komaki · 2021-06-12T01:51:52+00:00

Don't think it, it won't happen

hagakurejunkie · 2021-06-12T02:39:03+00:00

You can't flirt like a woman flirts. Instead you have to act oblivious to her blatant attempts.

Her: "Oh the things I would do to you."

You: *Gasp "Whatever do you mean, I'm a nice christian boy" (smile mischievously while saying this

Her: "You're not christian"

You: "Of course I am, I'm a virgin, I'm saving myself for marriage" (Have the look on your face like even you don't believe your own BS)

You can't be a creep by doing this because she's leading the conversation, you're just tagging along. Don't say anything sexual. The point of flirting is for her to never be totally sure you're actually into her, even when you're actually in her.

Where guys ruin it and kill the vibe is by saying anything directly sexual like "Oh I'd love to eat you from behind"

This gives her validation that she completely has you and now she doesn't want you anymore. Women are only attracted to men who they're not sure are really into them. Once they know you like them or want to sleep with them, they're turned off.

hob814 · 2021-06-12T03:08:37+00:00

Whatever she does do it back and then do something a little more daring, not too much just slightly more daring

GracieFairmont86 · 2021-06-12T02:48:40+00:00

(physically flirting only)

No woman will physically touch any man she ain't attracted to, exception being hugs from relatives.

That being said she pre selected you, you can be at ease you really cant fail now, just dont fuck up, just avoid big turnoffs, you are in the lead it's your game to lose now. Dont feel like a creep (you have no reason to)and she wont see you as a creep. Shit if some girl is physically flirting with me I'm asking her if she wants to have a 1 on 1 tonsil hockey contest, in this situation you can be bold, physical flirting is the biggest green light there is.

JHighMusic · 2021-06-12T04:20:22+00:00

Don’t overthink. Thinking is your worst enemy when it comes to meeting women.

arihant-hg · 2021-06-12T07:50:30+00:00

First of all I am confused as to what you mean by physical flirting.

In any case if you think a girl is flirting with you it's a good thing. Your job is to respond to it atleast with a smile. Now not everybody has a gentle smile I suppose so practice in front of a mirror. We don't want you smiling like a creep.

Now maybe you feel like a creep because you really are a creep. You should always hide these things. So tread very carefully. My mantra is to not do anything wrong, even if not a lot gets done.

Rather than focusing on flirting, focus on not doing anything stupid. People will tell you to be brave and be yourself and all that. Don't do it. You ll lose your chance quite fast if you make too many wrong moves.

Minimalism is the key for you. Since you can't even flirt back you probably don't understand the girl or girls in general. It's hard enough for everyone. So whatever you say or do keep it minimal. Again things will be fine as long as you don't do anything wrong.

Title	How do I flirt back to a girl without feeling like a creep?
Author	Hazeymane
Upvotes	16
Comments	20
Date	June 11, 2021 2:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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