Do I admit I am a virgin?

idkimsmart · 2018-08-14T14:26:06+00:00

Don’t tell her. One of Tomassi’s iron rules, never admit how many women you have been with. Give the usual response to this type of “shittest”. Also seems early to think about an LTR when you havent even fucked her for some months. Beware of oneitis.

wobbleelbbow · 2018-08-14T14:27:46+00:00

Depends you wanna dry her pussy or not.

Chadster113 · 2018-08-14T14:18:11+00:00

If she thinks you're a player then that is good. She thinks your high value. Why would you want to change that. You don't have to lie but like the other guy said your sexual past is no ones business.

CainPrice · 2018-08-14T14:14:28+00:00

I don't see why your sexual history is anybody's business.

mr_lucky19 · 2018-08-14T15:22:34+00:00

She most likely isn't a virgin and just talking shit.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-08-14T15:28:45+00:00

Any time a woman asks me my 'count' - which most don't - I simply say, "I'm selective."

JustChopItOff · 2018-08-14T16:48:32+00:00

No.

A friend of mine was 25 and a virgin. I taught him a bunch of shit and upgraded his look. Luckily he was an advanced lifter with good hair, beard, and facial structure, but just with no self esteem.

Once I got him set up on tinder and gave him some pointers,, women just assumed he had been a player for years. So just don't discuss it. Also,, discussing how many partners you have had is just a shit test anyway.

Wrath_of_Trump · 2018-08-14T15:54:36+00:00

It's not a question for you to give a yes or no answer, much like "do you have a girlfriend?" It's a lose-lose. If you're a teenager, maybe it will be fine, but women will find it weird if you haven't had sex. Or moreover, a girl who has slept with a handful of guys will feel guilty that they would take your virginity. The fact that she is a virgin is irrelevant, she still runs by the same value-driven instincts that all women are. She needs to know you are not the bottom of the bin.

MisterRoid · 2018-08-14T16:53:50+00:00

If you are going to tell every girl you meet that you are a virgin, you might as well save yourself the trouble and cut off your dick right away. Don't be stupid.

fnordsnord · 2018-08-14T15:55:33+00:00

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LowSpecTea · 2018-08-14T15:35:52+00:00

Nope.Never tell. I made this mistake.

She wants you to be a pussy slayer...

So then she feels like she's getting fucked by a champ.

CalvinRichland · 2018-08-14T16:45:06+00:00

"My options arent necessarily related to my actions"

africanhamster · 2018-08-14T22:42:47+00:00

As a conservative girl, I'd never go out with a guy with a high N count. Girls don't really like players tbh unless you're a thot or have low self esteem.

freew33zy · 2018-08-14T23:00:31+00:00

No, don't admit this. I told a plate that I had been a virgin when we started a long time into her platehood, thinking I was safe because it no longer mattered and was more funny to me. She broke soon after. I don't think it was a coincidence.

Peter_B_Long · 2018-08-14T23:22:47+00:00

You can't tell if she's LTR material until you've plated her.

I wouldn't tell her, ever. She may be more comfortable giving her body with someone who she thinks is experienced vs. someone who also doesn't know what they're doing. Plus she'll lose attraction if you tell her you're a virgin because she'll think that there's something wrong with you.

2comment · 2018-08-15T03:54:43+00:00

No, women are not like men and do not value the same things or have the exact same jealousy mechanisms. It's not a "win" in her eyes.

She thinks I am a player

Yes, and she won you from the grasp of a bunch of other women. And you're taking that away.

"Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance." --Oscar Wilde

MotiMorphosys · 2018-08-14T15:51:52+00:00

A virgin asking for advice about a specific girl who is LTR material.

Welcome to TheRedPill bro.

cptgoatsack · 2018-08-14T17:32:15+00:00

Keep her guessing.

Fun2badult · 2018-08-14T18:50:16+00:00

You should read up on google for how to have sex and make it good for girl, how to make a girl have orgasm, what are sensitive spots, how to do oral on a girl, etc. read up and be prepared so you’ll know what you’re doing

Bruchibre · 2018-08-15T02:42:47+00:00

Don't tell but don't lie. At best, stay vague. Make fun of it.

Just be ready to take things slow and you'll earn her trust.

What do you mean by "you're seeing her"? are you sure that you are going to bang eventually?

FatmanO · 2018-08-14T14:55:05+00:00

I just said I have nothing serious before. I actually never kissed any before and never had a girlfriend but Im 18. Dont admit that your a virgin or you will look less attractive

trexgomez · 2018-08-14T17:30:43+00:00

Just say jokingly that you've lost count. But maybe some months in to the LtR and then you can break it to her.

Title	Do I admit I am a virgin?
Author	will_berttttt
Upvotes	20
Comments	62
Date	August 14, 2018 2:11 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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