Sometimes I find it hard to differentiate if her disinterest is because of something personal going on in her life or because I just suck at this stuff...

petriomelony · 2019-02-09T19:27:28+00:00

"hey can I meet you real quick?"... she told me her name then turned around...

you asked a bad question, then you got exactly what you asked for. what did you really want from her?

did you say your own name before commenting about her shirt? if not maybe she just thought that was a bit awkward. also, remember that girls will get comments about their appearance a bajillion times a day. comment on something else, something that makes her say, hey no one has said that to me before, and I kind of like it.

ntipz011 · 2019-02-09T19:31:04+00:00

hey can I meet you real quick

Please don't use that line, that youtube guy who uses it is super duper gay. He's weak game you shouldn't listen to his advices.

About your girl, she could have been shy. Or maybe she just didn't like you. There's only one way to be sure and you know which one.

skatinislife446 · 2019-02-09T22:54:32+00:00

You’re giving yourself like a 10% chance of success by hitting on girls at the gym. They’re surrounded by thirsty dudes checking them out and usually just want to get their workouts done, so their guard is up. Don’t bother.

iamjosan · 2019-02-09T21:51:39+00:00

Most people will be polite to you at the gym. They will entertain you for a bit and then continue with their workout. Some people will just ignore you because they are there to work out and don’t want any distractions.

And then there are a few people who are actually open to meeting strangers at gyms but that’s really rare from my experience.

In short, there is nothing you could have done to turn things around and i don’t think anyone with “good game” would have been able to get anything from her either.

To confirm this, I talked to a girl I recently fucked this week and she told me that she won’t talk to guys at the gym. I asked her what about me? What if I talked to her at the gym?

She said no. She said she has a rule about not talking to guys at the gym. She said she’s only there to workout.

I asked her where she would actually be open to meeting guys and the only place she mentioned was a park.

As you can see, girls(people) have their own rules that dictate their social behavior and interactions and there is nothing you can do about that.

andosss_42 · 2019-02-10T00:01:06+00:00

Pretty much all of the time if you approach a girl in a commercial gym they aren't going to want to talk to anyone.... At least I wouldn't

Varsel · 2019-02-10T03:22:33+00:00

https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/signals-woman-likes-you/1438005

https://theartofcharm.com/art-of-dating/girl-body-language-back-get-closer/

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-much-interest-show-girl-3-considerations

Title	Sometimes I find it hard to differentiate if her disinterest is because of something personal going on in her life or because I just suck at this stuff...
Author	gtrman571
Upvotes	17
Comments	17
Date	February 9, 2019 6:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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