Tyler Durden on trying too hard and how to avoid it

moozilla · 2010-04-06T07:41:14+00:00

19) BEING BOLD INSTEAD OF CONFIDENT = that you know that you can't pick her up, so you compensate with self-defeating actions so that the snub can be on "your terms". Saying "I'm sexy right?" or "baby I want some of that" or even just approaching when the logistics are totally unrealistic is too eager, because a CONFIDENT person wouldn't feel the NEED to say these kinds of things.. these things are symptoms of OVERCOMPENSATION for INSECURITIES.. which leads to..........

This one is great to know, I think this is where most people get the wrong idea of PUA.

mynewname · 2010-04-05T15:42:51+00:00

All the subtle little ways that you accidentally DLV yourself are in here. Several of which focus on talking too much.

If you watch Sex and The City (No, I'm serious, it's well-written, entertaining, and women LOVE to talk about it) or Weeds, you'll notice a certain archetype of man that the female protagonist falls for: of course he's generally powerful and good-looking, but also notice how little he talks. When he speaks it's either to make some charming inside joke, to briefly and vaguely give plans, or to deflect a serious question with a pithy response. He communicates through charming stares and smiles.

gozarthegozarian · 2010-04-08T01:42:41+00:00

ah the 25 points. Oldie but goodie. Classic.

Title	Tyler Durden on trying too hard and how to avoid it
Author	mynewname
Upvotes	18
Comments	10
Date	April 5, 2010 3:32 PM UTC (16 years ago)
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