What do you use to "Fluff" your conversations

philosarapter · 2010-07-28T14:24:52+00:00

Silences are only awkward if you make them awkward. If it gets quiet, no worries, just smirk and give her a seductive look, then follow it with a slightly silly face. If she is interested in you, she will give you one in return. When she does that you say "Be careful, your face might stay that way.... actually that would probably be an improvement!"

If you've been talking for a while and are hitting it off pretty well, do a compliance test. See how big her hands are compared to yours, thumb wrestle. Show her a trick. Point to the upper left of the building and be like "OH. MY. GOD. WTF IS THAT!?!" when she looks just laugh and be like "Wow. you are so gullible. hahaha"

Once you have made fun of her a little, say "Lets get you a drink. Youre a hot mess."

Talk is good, but don't turn your conversation into a biography of her life. You'll bore her so fast. Keep playful. Include more challenges, games, bar tricks, magic tricks, acrobatic abilities, jokes, and remember... whatever happens, its HER fault. :)

iforgot120 · 2010-07-28T15:24:04+00:00

Look up "conversation threading." Then, go eat a warm blueberry bagel with strawberry cream cheese.

cbraga · 2010-07-28T13:14:03+00:00

Don't try to fluff. Don't look like you're making an effort. They'll pick up on it. Make some funny comments about the environment or other general subject and see if they pick up on it. If they do they're interested. If not, probably best to move on you can always come back later too.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2010-07-28T13:41:00+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/crlh2/as_a_lifelong_introvert_i_have_always_struggled/

Read the link in the OP

AFCwithaplan · 2010-07-28T12:26:41+00:00

(Still fairly new to this, so take this with a pinch of salt)

Fluffing is just general conversation. What do you normally talk to female friends about? By the time you require fluffing you should already be in the comfort zone, so just talk about the things you'd talk about with people you're comfortable with.

calnick0 · 2010-07-28T19:23:25+00:00

Make her talk, investigate her and find out what makes her personality. Most girls really like this and it will help you.

It's a good skill to be able to make someone open up so it's good practice for that too. Don't be surprised if you aren't that great at first.

Title	What do you use to "Fluff" your conversations
Author	captainwillies
Upvotes	20
Comments	21
Date	July 28, 2010 9:32 AM UTC (16 years ago)
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