(FYI: I will be using this account for all seddit posts now, not just FRs.)

OBSERVATION #1: BE PASSIONATE

I went to the concert of the girl I met earlier this morning in the club around 2 or 3AM from my FR. I witnessed a great example of what most call being "in state" e.g. going Super Saiyan.

When I met her she was decidedly an HB7. Yet when I arrive to her show ten minutes late and see her on stage she is immediately an HB9. She is in her element as lead singer and lead guitarist for a rock band. Seeing her putting everything she had into her passion and commanding a crowd shot her instantly up to a legit HB9. You could just feel it on her while up there. It was reflected in her mannerisms, her smile, her energy, her confidence.

After her set ends we chat for a bit and she gradually loses the glow and drifts from HB9 for the first 10~ minutes to back to plain-old HB7 by 20-30~ minutes after. She had fallen out of state.

It really showcased to me the importance of being in state. She just felt and acted more confident and attractive.

I think this translates very clearly to sarging, especially in club settings. If you are putting your entire essence into whatever it is you're doing, and feeling great doing it, your passion will shine through and you will feel and act like an all-star. This is what being in state is all about.

Talk to girls about your passions and be PASSIONATE about it. Let it emanate from your being. If you feel you're in your element, your passion will be contagious and people will be more drawn to you. I saw her in an entirely new light while up on stage and and in the minutes immediately afterward.

OBSERVATION #2: Get out & lead an interesting life

So I went out last night and bounced around bars and ultimately to a club. By socializing with countless groups of people (including mixed sets and men) I met this very cool musician. She invited me to her show and introduced me to more musicians and I got to see some other great bands play. I now have connections and social proof in entire new circles I never even knew existed before.

I feel my life is more interesting now. More fulfilled. The more you go out and meet people, the more interesting opportunities will be presented to you. This not only enriches your life but makes you much more attractive to women. Leading an interesting life means you're less available (scarcity is a key in the laws of attraction) because you'll be busy doing interesting things. It also will make others want to be your friend because they see all the interesting stuff you do.

Be honest, how many of you sitting at home would attend a concert alone on a random invite from someone you just met 16 hours prior in a club? By getting out and actually doing stuff (taking the plunge) you make your life better and give yourself better chances of success with women!

tl;dr: Get the hell off of reddit and go socialize. Take chances. Good things will happen.