I called my buddy around 9pm to deliver the following:

Hey dude, whats up blah blah. Listen, I had an epiphany about you other day when I was super hungover and clairvoyant. Your drinking makes your game sloppy... But if you focused on women instead of drinking, you would slayyy with the ladies and probably be pretty pumped.

He genuinely appreciated what I was trying to say-- since I wasn't telling him he needed to stop drinking just to be healthy.

So I tell him we're going to a party tonight.

I'm getting myself into a good state in advance. Make sure I look classy. Listening to our local dance station in the car. I've made it a point to myself to maintain an alpha state and status by being social with everyone around.

So we roll in and I get right to work. Force myself to do a tofu-style entrance with high fives. It fucking works-- we instantly got a lot of attention from the room because the girl on stage was freaking and came off stage to give me a hug. Instant social proof, instant social position--I am now the dude that knows the band and made an entrance.

This super alpha behavior is exactly what I've been needing to work on. Its a bit tricky because I'm outside my comfort zone and totally sober. Once I get into it though, I'm realizing how much fun I'm having. Basically, to be in party mode and summon attraction from all the deserving women there, I made sure to keep people talking, dancing, moving, dancing, having fun, dancing. I'm smiling at everyone and genuinely having a good time.

Somewhere in there I open meet a girl coming off stage. Everyone coming off stage needs to be told that they 'rocked' or 'killed it' or 'really made an impression.' I introduce her to my afc friend that I brought along. I float off talk to others. My targets are the two cutest girls in the room... but I can't single out which one I want.

This is a mistake I thinks. Having a mindset that I was focusing on two girls kept me from being immediate with kino and dancing. I ended up floating between them and not focusing on one. Meh. I number close both of them, right after the other.

1:

I really liked hanging out with you tonight. How long are you in town?

8 days

Do you want to party one of those days?

Maybeeee.....

Maybe eh? Well Mayyybeee you should put your number in my phone.

I can't believe how nervous shy flustered she was. they're often more shy of you than you are of them. ez.

2:

me: (already had my phone out with her name typed in)

Please put your number in my phone.

ez.

So then we're out of there. The girl my buddy has been hanging with this WHOLE time is hanging on him by this time, but he doesn't know how to proceed, because he's got himself drunk again.

So we're leaving and this girl is trying to drive herself home. Fuck that noise. I tell her she needs to crash at one of our places to sober up. My buddy volunteers my place-- WTF is wrong with this dude? Anyways, I'm ok with her crashing. I'm not really attracted to her. Maybe 6.5.

So we're driving and I'm maintaining alpha frame/state by saying to the girl:

I don't know anything about you, tell me your life story.

Proceeding to tell my buddy and the girl that we're going to exchange life stories (Juggler). I go first, compacting my life story into a short paragraph about how I feel I've finally found my home in this town. DHV. ez.

My buddy sets off on his life story and rambles on and on about family and religion... he's kindof drunk and just getting sloppy. So the girl finally gives her life story and then we drop off AFC friend. He asks if we're going to come in and chill and I say

"Nope, you're getting dropped off."

So high-tail it home. Meet the cats, drink some water. There really isn't chemistry because I'm not particularly attracted to this girl. So I tell her that the cats are touchy about their space and she needs to sleep in the bed. I'm not consciously trying to get this girl in my bed-- though I'll concede that my subconscious is pretty damn crafty.

Get in bed, I tell her she can sleep in whatever state of dress or undress that she wants because

I'm not going to have sex with you.

I didn't realize how powerful saying this would be. I was basically allowing her to be comfortable in her own skin whilst displaying an aloofness to sex. But it only conveyed power because I've been acting like a boss all night. She knows that I'm the dude that made the entrance carrying a big-ass candy cane. She picked up on my social proof all night long.

So this is where things started to mystify me. My body starts revolting. I'm having sensual dreams and can't stop picturing her giving me head. Pretty soon I have a massive erection. Make mental note not to let girls in my bed that I don't want to fuck.

So I poke her, wake her up:

This is super cliche, but I have a massive erection.

She laughs. I start rubbing her back, tell her:

You know what the strange part of it is? I don't even have a crush on you. In fact, I think I have a half-a-crush on your friend HBantlers.

So I'm rubbing her back and turn her towards me to make out. She is into it but pulls away.

Wait, I'm confused, you don't have a crush on me??

Nope, strange.

Well, it looks like you brought the wrong girl home.

I guess I can't argue with that.

So I kindof pull back, and lay down, but my body is still laying against hers at our hips. We lay like this for a bit, she doesn't pull away. At this point I can't really control my body, so I'm rubbing my hips on hers, my hand is on her ass as we're kindof gently grinding. I tell her that my head and my body are going in two completely opposite directions. She turns over and asks which direction she should be helping out.

I give her control by saying

Whatever you want.

So we start making out hard and heavy. Clothes off pls. Can't stop myself from going down on her, using my fingers and my tongue in tandem. She goes down on me. I tell her

I bet you can't make me cum.

Haha. I have no idea where this cocky shit is coming from, but its working well.

We make sweet luv into the night. I end up about 6 inches from shooting straight into her eyes. The force of the cum nailing the headboard was so intense that it made gunshot-type splatters and dripping patterns.

I still don't feel bad about fucking this girl. We had a great time in bed, it was very spicy.

Lessons learned

  • Pick a target and get immediate and direct.
  • Don't let a girl into my bed unless I want to fuck her.

Examples of doing the party like an alpha:

  • band is playing-- no one is up front. I move right on up-- then people stat to move in. leading people is alpha.
  • the last act is kindof crazy-- no worries, lets all dance as hard as we can to the jams. oh hey one-man-band dude, I'll play your drums. Hell yeah, now I'm actually causing the good times from stage.
  • at one point, I actually had to show 5-6 people the ian curtis dance and lead them up to the front where we proceeded to dance in sync. It doesn't matter that we looked stupid-- we were having FUN.

TL;DR: #closed two cutest girls in the room. Told a girl I didn't have a crush on her, then fucked her.