Okay so I've been trying to use a bunch of openers lately and there really aren't any that i like to start off with and create attraction right off the bat. most times i get stuck in that "zone" when i are thinking on soooo much of what i want to say to her and can't come up with anything. or if i do have something to open with, my mind psyches me out of it, it tells me "Nah, that won't work dude..." then of course my rebutle would be "WELL WHAT THE FUCK DO I SAY?!?!" theses series of back and forth between me and my thoughts usually waste the very valuable time for me to GO UP AND SAY ANYTHING.
So this all happened yesterday after school. (I'm a Highschool Senior, 18) I go up to the front office and wait for my ride like i do every day at 4:00pm. i see this HB7 sitting by herself on the bench, make eye contact breifly. set my stuff down and go to the restroom. i try to figure out something to say to her...nothing came to mind so the only thing i could think of to open was with a Cold Approach. A have tried this technique before and it yeilded great results(for me at least) so i come out of the restroom, our eyes meet again, but a little bit longer this time. i look away and sit down. now for about a good 2 minutes there was AWKWARD silence. it was almost like she wanted me to say something to her. as soon as i turned to get a glimpse of her she had already turned her back. Bad sign? well what was even worse was that she got up and waited right next to the entrance doors. I was kinda thrown off from that but that only made my situation more dire. so after an intense battle with my mind on whether not to go up and cold approach, i got the fuck up and clutched my balls and walked up and talked to her! xD
Me: "Hey...I'm gonna hate myself if i don't do this but..i think you're really cute" Her: "Thank youuu!" (with a big-ass smile on her face) Me: "what's your name?" Her: "HB7" Me: "I'm Derp" 'The good sign i saw was that she said "it's nice to meet you" before i had the chance to XD and i was just about to too^ so we were talking for about a good 5 minutes before my ride came. we started from what grade she was in to summer plans to future plans to intrests/hobbies to other things. so when my ride was here i told her "Well, it was nice talking to you HB7" and i fake as if i was leaving but forgetting something and that thing was HER NUMBER! and here is the part where i messed up. i ended up giving her my number instead >.< becasue her phone was turned off (pre-paid) all i did after that was eject. but even then i thought it was a job well done : D maybe i'll see her again because i actually found out despite her stand offish body language (turning her back to me, and walking away) she is the type of girls i go for.
so to summarize, Man'd the fuck up and cold approached the girl, results were awesome. reverse #close.
EDIT: I typed this all from my phone in class. so all of you who are grilling me about my grammar, seriously. shut the fuck up. your concerns about my spelling aren't key about this report. i'm giving out FR's to share my experiances and hopefully try and help someboy out and also get things off my chest. if your a AP English teacher and you are horribly offended by my lack of spelling due to effort(excuse me for trying to get out my FR out there only to have minimal errors) then i say....WHO THE FUCK CARES?! as long as you understand the point of this my goal was acheived. Thank you to all who overlooked my 8th grade grammar skills.
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