Is the end-goal of seduction to acquire the best long-term partner?

aeoz · 2011-09-12T06:57:23+00:00

nope.

The end goal of seduction is to give you the ability to get what YOU want.

Some guys want to find that one women to marry with and raise a family with.

Some guys want to be like George Clooney. Stay single their whole lives and date beautiful young women.

I actually know a few guys that are asexual and in the community. They don't even care about getting laid or having someone. They used seduction as a way to learn social skills / confidence and to apply it to the business world.

The end goal is whatever you want it to be.

2011-09-12T15:57:15+00:00

The end goal is whatever you want it to be. Seduction techniques are a means to an end. They're tools, and you decide what purpose to use them for.

For me, I'm not really interested in having sex with as many women as possible, or having sex with random strangers. That can be fun and all, but I'd honestly rather get to know a girl and establish a friendship before having sex with her. So I don't practice any of the "pickup" part of seduction like opening sets at bars. I mostly pay attention to all the other stuff like framing, kino escalation, having an abundance mentality, attraction, comfort building, etc. I have a lot of situations in my social life where I want to escalate, and it's enourmously helpful to know how to do it when the need arises.

yokhai · 2011-09-12T16:51:41+00:00

There is no end goal.

Seduction is a tool we use to make ourselves better at life. The end goal is be happy and reflect on all the good moments when we ever get a chance.

sillymallard · 2011-09-12T07:49:52+00:00

It is for me. I want the Disney happily ever after life with the woman of my dreams. The only thing is, I've realized that the way to get this is completely different from anything that mainstream entertainment teaches. It just doesn't "happen".

kanji_sasahara · 2011-09-12T12:18:14+00:00

Depends. I'm not particularly interested in a partner, I just want to have fun with as many attractive women as possible.

frogma · 2011-09-12T14:13:32+00:00

Only if that's what you consider the "best" situation. Personally, I'm enjoying fucking girls while still looking out for one who really vibes with me. Other guys prefer sex without drama, so the "best" situation for them is something like having a harem of girls. Still other guys just want to get better at meeting people, no matter where it leads.

You're mistaken in assuming that an LTR is what people want. I'd say most guys want that, but plenty of others don't (and 9 times out of 10, the guys who make it a "goal" don't have much experience). Right now I'm completely happy with fuck buddies (some of whom I purely just fuck, others who I treat like standard girlfriends). And that's all I want right now. I'd say the main reason I'd like to get married eventually is because of the cultural beliefs attached to that. A lot of guys don't need that to be happy, and in 10 years, I might not want that either.

boyfrienddestroyers · 2011-09-12T15:15:04+00:00

it's to acquire social freedom as well

2011-09-12T19:07:16+00:00

The end goal is to be happy with your life, whatever that may be.

Dfnoboy · 2011-09-12T19:29:22+00:00

If you make that your end goal, you wont be very good at seduction.

"Many-girls-theory" is the best advice floating around here. It excretes assumptive, exclusivity, and urgency. You'll lose all that if you start thinking "I need to marry this one!"

Just keep fucking girls. Eventually you will find one you like. But certainly don't make it your goal from the get go.

puaCurveBall · 2011-09-12T07:16:27+00:00

If you want it to be.

Some guys use it that way, others want a different woman every night.

you_require_moar · 2011-09-12T22:37:17+00:00

Personally, I will stop when I have a full fledged actual harem.

Title	Is the end-goal of seduction to acquire the best long-term partner?
Author	JamesBondDonJuan
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	September 12, 2011 6:32 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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