The important thing Seddit has taught me in one video

wristcontrol · 2012-01-05T15:54:47+00:00

I like this guy. Straight, to the point, zero bullshit, and making very solid points.

HeIsMyPossum · 2012-01-05T19:16:45+00:00

This is the TL;DR of this whole subreddit.

2012-01-05T16:28:35+00:00

The most important thing I got from that was: "Be Interesting!"

cleaningallthethings · 2012-01-05T16:25:43+00:00

As a girl (who used to date assholes), I approve of his message.

Also, TIL what a 'mouth hug' is.

PLplotsOTS · 2012-01-05T18:08:56+00:00

Don't be an asshole. Don't date assholes. And have the ability to know when you're doing either one.

Good stuff.

Keeronin · 2012-01-05T16:50:55+00:00

By the way, an x-post from r/videos, but useful nonetheless

twoww · 2012-01-05T19:58:50+00:00

I always see girls on facebook or where ever admitting that they date assholes and that they want to date a nice guy. The guy in the video clearly explains why they don't. Most nice guys are afraid to talk to girls and be interesting. This is why the seduction community is awesome. It takes all us nice guys and hopefully turns us into the best kind of guys, not boring, confident nice guys. Not even with just females but in basically every social situation you'll ever be in.

It's been a slow process for me but I'd be lying if I said it didn't make me a better happier person.

2012-01-05T19:14:18+00:00

He talks about the wonderful world of assholes then says don't be an asshole.

I thought the last part would be don't be boring haha.

alphaasfuck · 2012-01-05T19:20:35+00:00

Nope. This guy has some valid points but he never defines what an 'asshole' is, just strawmans them.

And this fixing shit? Saying girls just want to fix things? I mean, maybe some of them, but not nearly most of them. Most of them get in relationships wanting more out of it than what they will get. That's all. We all do it.

This thing about checking things off the list? Man, I dunno about you guys, but when I start dating a girl, in the end I probably will have learned more things about myself - things I don't like. I'm adding things to that list. Thing is, people take that list TOO FUCKING SERIOUSLY. So fuck it. Throw out that fucking list. That list will own you if you let it.

All in all, I just can't take this guy seriously. He clearly is affected by some recent event, and is trying to learn from it (props), but he isn't all the way there.

2012-01-05T17:27:15+00:00

Excellent video.

rad_thundercat · 2012-01-05T20:28:00+00:00

+1 for mouth hugs.

BrianKPSMark · 2012-01-05T21:03:49+00:00

Interesting video for sure. I don't know if everything he said was relevant beyond people don't want to be bored. Of course people don't want to be bored. That's something that people can't logically argue.

My opinion on "assholes" is someone that plays with someone elses emotions for their own enjoyment. That would make sense since females are emotional beings; being able to emotionally stimulate someone for your personal benefit would be a "Win" in the "Asshole Gets Girl" category.

2012-01-06T22:32:07+00:00

At one point this thing was a piece of shit and now its awesome

jakedebest · 2012-01-05T20:23:19+00:00

why the fuck can't any popular youtuber do a video without it cutting every 2-3 seconds? am I the only one who notices this?

I know they do it to keep your attention but PLEASE, if your video has good content within the first minute I will stay for the rest.

GuybrushMightyPirate · 2012-01-05T19:02:39+00:00

to thew front page two days in a row...

Title	The important thing Seddit has taught me in one video
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	170
Comments	25
Date	January 5, 2012 7:55 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/o3q39/the_important_thing_seddit_has_taught_me_in_one/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/the-important-thing-seddit-has-taught-me-in-one.1326586 https://theredarchive.com/post/1326586

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