How do you reply to, "Haha boy I ain't that easy! :)"?

thepuffinman · 2012-02-27T22:23:34+00:00

"Me either, stop trying to seduce me!"

ppp_man · 2012-02-27T21:42:20+00:00

There's a million things you can say but what it comes down to is not making her feel like a slut for having sex with you.

Your conversation translated:

You: "I'm horny! Let's have sex."

Her: "Hey, I get a choice. I'm not some slut."

You: "I don't care what you want, it just has to feel good."

So there is no correct response exactly, because you're first text was the mistake. All women want sex, but they don't want it "put on the table" in the open like this. They hate to have to make a choice about having sex. It's why you have to hint at it, talk around it, or not talk much about it at all and let your bodies do the talking so that she never consciously makes a choice about having sex. It's where flirting comes from.

Better first text: "I love getting close to you. When are you free this week?"

2012-02-28T04:15:52+00:00

I send her some text illiciting some sex time the next time we meet

Don't do that.

puaCurveBall · 2012-02-27T21:58:35+00:00

"I like a challenge :)"

STOP OVERTHINKING TEXTS!!!

rmbarnes · 2012-02-28T13:46:55+00:00

When in doubt, don't respond to what she's said.

Also, just have sex with her the next time you see her. Sort the logistics out so you can end up in a place conducive to sex (your bedroom would be good). You don't need to text her making sure she wants sex when that's the way it's obviously heading.

ppp_man · 2012-02-28T06:08:46+00:00

after reading all these comments im really confused as everyone seems to have a completely different idea of what is best

On one hand women love sex and you should be aggressive but the other hand is you shouldnt force it and let her do the work

the latter seems like the worse to me because everything else i learn is about being confident and saying what you want

vj88 · 2012-02-28T01:01:23+00:00

Sounds like your framing is wrong. Your framing it as your chasing her when you should be framing it as she is chasing you and you are the one who is saying no so your being a challenge.

eg when talking to her say something like "stop it, your making me think impure thoughts"

type the banter line above into google and you will find some resources to use of better lines to say

mostprobably · 2012-02-28T02:47:49+00:00

I always like to be the one to say that to a girl. Get's them going for sure. I guess a good response can be 'I don't know what you're thinking about, but neither am I'

lifelongAFC · 2012-02-28T06:58:13+00:00

Richard La Ruina does a kinda funny approach to it, something that I do as well, always makes for a good laugh, my response would be something along the lines of "oh how unfortunate ;)"

floor-pi · 2012-02-29T17:47:51+00:00

Once she sent that text, in fact, once you sent yours, you were trapped.

Almost all of the responses here are making joke replies to her, but a dumb joke, after 3 dates, is just going to leave you stuck in the trap and flailing about like a chode. If you were already sexual with her, the jokes would be ok. But at this point, I think the best response to that text is either ignoring it, or to somehow flip it around on her, e.g. "Haha boy i ain't that easy!" -> "I hope you aren't suggesting that i am :o" or something akin to "Yeah you're right, i think we should wait!"....well not those exactly, but anything to get you out of your self-set trap, even if it means completely contradicting your first text, cause there was no winning after that.

SinSlayer · 2012-02-27T21:19:56+00:00

"Haha boy I ain't that easy! :-)"

"Then stop making me so damn hard! ;-p"

allyouneedis_ · 2012-03-01T08:33:42+00:00

This literally made me cringe. I absolutely hate it when guys pull this. Texting that you want to have sex is the sleaziest thing ever. It puts girls in such an awkward position because we don't want to have that pressure hanging over us and we don't want to go into a date with a guy EXPECTING anything. Any guy who's ever texted me about sex after hanging out only a few times doesn't get to hang out again.

Title	How do you reply to, "Haha boy I ain't that easy! :)"?
Author	OptimGuy
Upvotes	6
Comments	27
Date	February 27, 2012 8:58 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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