There are several powerful "attraction triggers" that get women interested in you. One of them is pre-selection. Women are attracted to men who are with women. It shows that a woman already has selected you and you have met her standards. So she wants in on the action.

I had an amusing encounter with pre-selection today. I was having brunch with a female client today, it was a beautiful, sunny day and lots of people were at this trendy sidewalk cafe. It was a buffet, you choose your foods and bring your tray to the cashier. The client was buying, another powerful sign of pre-selection.

As I was standing at the cashier and the client was paying, a beautiful woman in a skimpy sun dress came up behind me in line and actually used an observational opener on me. She commented on how great my food looked and came up beside and started to chat me up. She made a remark about my food with a little innuendo, "ooh I'd be all up in that" and laid her hand on my arm casually. LOL IOI.

Well if I wasn't there with a client trying to close on a $1200 job, I'd have closed her and she would have been all up in that. But alas, one must have priorities. I left her behind and continued on to my brunch business meeting.

Pre-selection makes you more approachable. I think the woman hitting on me also made my client more interested in doing business. It works both ways, I closed the deal.