Crush Your Sexual Anxiety Once and For All

nefrina · 2012-07-31T01:40:29+00:00

"write down your entire sexual past in detail".

I've got nothing.

NickTDS · 2012-07-30T19:45:33+00:00

This is essentially CBT.

It's a wonderful tool.

JimmyNic · 2012-07-30T20:02:46+00:00

Your stuff reminds me of Mark Manson from Postmasculine.com, whose advice I've found useful. If I have a criticism it's that going from making eye contact to teasing is a bit of a jump if you've no experience with cold approaching. I only say this because this is exactly the stage I'm stuck at :P, any suggestions?

dumpingthisacct · 2012-07-30T17:46:25+00:00

What if the negative effects of sexual anxiety cause symptoms such as occasional erectile dysfunction? Can this system help stop this from occurring?

DailyBassist · 2012-07-30T18:51:37+00:00

LPT: do not attempt exercise #7 at work. I got in trouble.

MykalT · 2012-07-30T21:51:08+00:00

I have the feeling for most of the steps you just had to have at least one sexual experience in your life, but I never slept with a girl, held hands with one or kissed one. Me making sexual comments would sound utterly ridicolous. People see through that kind of bullshitting.

AnUnknown · 2012-07-30T23:09:23+00:00

I really identified with what you have here, which honestly surprised me. I'm not insecure in the sense of worrying whether or not I'm attractive or whether a girl's in to me (I am, and they usually are); but the "this isn't me" and "I don't care about hooking up," is totally me.

Fuck you. You called me on it.

I'd love to see more uncomfortable truths from the perspective of challenging who you believe yourself to be. I already know I can take women home, but do I want to?

DeathRebirth · 2012-07-30T18:35:58+00:00

Good stuff, but I have to say that is not a linear difficulty curve right there :P

NickTDS · 2012-07-30T22:43:30+00:00

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throbbingmanhood · 2012-07-31T01:39:28+00:00

I have pretty much 0 social or sexual anxiety. Any help with general anxiety?

2012-07-31T23:51:49+00:00

You watch porn and think about sex regularly; those desires are most definitely a part of you.

Shit, good point, really good point. I had doubts whether or not being with women and comfortable in my desires was really me, but that is a really good example of why it is. Good shit.

Snake0987654321 · 2012-07-31T05:22:19+00:00

Hey guys: Why not have sex and just get used to it?

Title	Crush Your Sexual Anxiety Once and For All
Author	NickTDS
Upvotes	286
Comments	31
Date	July 30, 2012 3:28 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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