Why You Should Learn to Walk Away

ackypoo · 2013-05-30T15:57:49+00:00

couldnt have read this at a better time

Qbsha · 2013-05-30T15:06:47+00:00

Great read, sent this to a couple friends as well. I think the key here is never putting a stranger (the girl you just met) in front of your life. Have standards, and don't put up with women who don't meet them.

azrael9 · 2013-05-30T15:13:45+00:00

Wow! This column was truly insightful and has great advice for any man looking to gain self worth, or as a milestone marker to see where you currently stand, mentally. I will probably be referencing this a few months down the road as a beacon to keep me on course with confidence and happiness. I have a great girlfriend now, and I feel it is due to the aspect that I know I am a great partner, boyfriend, SO, and friend. These points just made me realize this. Thank you for posting!

chesterstone · 2013-05-30T14:36:47+00:00

Good read. I wish I knew most of these things years ago.

NickTDS · 2013-05-30T16:54:45+00:00

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NickTDS · 2013-05-30T23:16:55+00:00

In any other case I'd say this is shameless self plugging and probably be annoyed by it, if only your posts weren't fucking gold.
I can honestly say I've never regretted reading a single one of your articles. Keep up the good work, my friend. :)

fabsonaboat · 2013-05-30T16:04:45+00:00

Really good and interesting read. I've learned and used these concepts subconsciously even though I've been on and off with the same girl for almost three years. It's hard to cope with letting them go but you gain so much more experience and value yourself in a way you never had once you have gone through these experiences.

Kappio · 2013-05-30T16:12:07+00:00

Thank you so much... This... this is just awesome to read. THANK YOU!

hau5cat · 2013-05-31T01:03:11+00:00

I needed this shit man.

hybaric · 2013-05-30T18:39:24+00:00

great article

the_brick_attack · 2013-05-30T20:51:30+00:00

At first I thought this was going to be some silly article on why you should walk away to save face or some crap like that. I was happily wrong to see that it is about keeping high value and abundance.

This also carries over to work and opportunities in life, Nick. Well done.

skeddles · 2013-05-30T15:42:22+00:00

What does not respecting your time mean?

I_M_Man · 2013-05-30T14:23:16+00:00

What about never giving up? :+(

Nycest · 2013-05-30T18:57:45+00:00

So glad I found this. Definitely keeping this for later reads.

hoganloaf · 2013-05-30T21:10:52+00:00

This is exactly what I needed to hear. I've been having a hard time figuring out why my success rates with women have been plummeting, and this fresh perspective made it clear that my scarcity mindset is at least part of the problem.

GermanDude · 2013-05-30T23:11:39+00:00

While I have the "walking away" down to a degree this one still gets me:

Women who [truly] like me are rare.

But only because I somehow can't stop seeing a girl that likes me in relation to all the other girls I currently notice, i.e. find attractive. i.e. it's kind of a "these x women like, buut...all the other x million girls / all the models don't". Even though it obviously is a really unrealistic thought to be liked by all or even most girls...

perfekt_disguize · 2013-05-30T23:15:04+00:00

Everyone is referncing quick girls they have run into bit this also stands for myself, who has been tied up mentally about a girl i dated for over a year, who i broke up with and am now regretting my decision while she has moved on and wants to 'be friends'. It was my decision to end it and now she has gained the upper hand... I needed to read this thx

LifeReno · 2013-05-31T00:17:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing this wonderful article. Much appreciated.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-05-31T01:40:28+00:00

Willingness to walk away is a DHV in itself. An AFC hangs onto a woman like it's the best he'll ever do and it's his last chance. But an abundance mentality means you know you can always do as well or better than this woman, and you aren't attached to the outcome with this woman.

This also applies to takeaways. Walking away from a woman shows her that you're confident that she can't do better, and no other guy in the room is as good as you. Let her chase you.

metshower · 2013-05-31T06:52:42+00:00

I think this is good advice for those who are struggling to get out of someone's friend zone.

It may even be good advice for those who already have good seduction skills and now need to slow down and find a good pace.

I think this is bad advice for those who are still learning to approach women and score dates. The very act of approaching is itself desperation. Most sets you approach will want to eject you immediately. It is your job to plow through and hook the set, and chat up the target until she gives you the digits or a kiss or more. For someone who is still learning seduction, the most important rule is to do your fucking best to stay in the set.

squattincassanova3 · 2013-05-30T22:34:02+00:00

I'll still stay if I can get the lay in the bag.

mountainfreshh · 2013-05-30T23:18:57+00:00

This is a fantastic article. Unfortunately I'm having trouble with my strong resentment of women, and instead of looking at women I see as potential dates, I feel angry at them. I figure that school is my No.1 priority and that women will come later on. The article is good not only for women, but it also shows you how to stand up for yourself.

NickTDS · 2013-05-30T15:55:00+00:00

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Title	Why You Should Learn to Walk Away
Author	NickTDS
Upvotes	567
Comments	66
Date	May 30, 2013 1:41 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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