I'm selfishly writing this to make myself feel better, but I hope it helps some of you out there as well.

So over the last week or so I have been failing a lot. I don't know if it is just an off week or if there is a piece of my game that fell out of sync. Tonight for instance, I blew a date because I played the dominate frame to hard. I was starting to get down on myself when I turned towards one of my positive affirmations that goes a long the lines of

"I am doing the things and taking the journey that few men are willing to take to obtain the things that few men have"

I guess what I am trying to say is that we are all going to fail at times in pursuit of our goals, but we can't let that bring us down. In fact there is no such thing as failure as long as you learn from it. Failure just means that you didn't reach your goal this time, it doesn't mean you never will.

Each time I don't reach my goal when talking to women (whether it's getting a number, date, sex, whatever) I learn from it. I know deep down that if I fail enough times then I will eventually get to the goal that I am trying to achieve. In fact the day I stop failing, it either means I'm a god or I'm not taking enough chances. No risk, no reward.

Nothing in this life worth having comes easily. YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH THE PAIN PERIOD to reach you goal. Don't give up and push through. You will make it and you will be a better person in the end for it.

Do you guys agree or am I alone on this one?