[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/26/2012

drewthetroll · 2012-10-26T16:42:07+00:00

How can I talk to a cute girl in class? I have no problem asking for help on hw or any school related subject while in class, but I seem to have a real hard time going the extra step. That extra step I am talking about I am transitioning from school work to other topics.

Thanks

pissinhercunt · 2012-10-26T19:33:59+00:00

How do I stop myself from choding out when it comes to talking to girls? I know it's a no-risk/high-rewards deal. I'm not afraid of rejection, or even making an ass out of myself. I've been shy my entire life, but I got over that. I'm loud now, not afraid to say things I was a year ago, or scream at the top of my lungs while walking down the street.

However...when it comes to girls, I chode out. Every time.

Been with a girl plenty of times. My last three relationships came from the girl approaching me and asking me out. Or, just from it "happening". I've never went up to a girl I like, of a girl I find cute, and strike a conversation up and try to get her number. Never.

I know of the "go" approach too...just to not think about it, and just go talk to her. But my brain is an asshole, and I always think about it first, even when I tell myself I'm not going to give it a thought.

ActiveFaith · 2012-10-26T17:19:09+00:00

In college classes, I always pussy out when I see a girl I want to talk to. I constantly think of what their reactions will be to me and how they will negatively perceive me. How do I get out of this mindset of constantly seeking the verification of others and just approach?

AFatWork · 2012-10-26T17:26:47+00:00

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AspiringAlpha · 2012-10-26T20:03:28+00:00

What are some good ways to approach girls at parties? This is where I seem to have the most trouble.

Naga14 · 2012-10-26T17:06:49+00:00

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jelloleaf · 2012-10-26T18:00:34+00:00

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Naga14 · 2012-10-26T22:08:14+00:00

How do you go direct without coming off as needy?

tonito1020 · 2012-10-26T23:33:54+00:00

Recently i had a girl take out her phone and start texting while we were talking, not sure if it was a shit test or if she was just being rude. Either way, what's a good way to deal with it? I'd like to establish that i find it rude but i don't want to ruin the vibe. Thanks in advance

intrepidester · 2012-10-27T02:01:52+00:00

Under 21 here. Where is a good place in a small college and town to meet girls at and or take them on a date?

squarehouse · 2012-10-26T16:59:11+00:00

Is it feminine to text xo to a woman you're seeing? Any sort of rules for not texting too feminine?

SynchratiC · 2012-10-26T19:37:32+00:00

I'm at college and there are some girls I am interested in. I'm pretty much busy all day during classes, and at night I don't want to bring them to a frat party or anything like that.

Where can I do with them (something that's somewhat intimate), also is it weird to do this? I feel strange asking girls out on dates for the weekend when I feel like everyone goes to parties.

Naga14 · 2012-10-26T23:08:34+00:00

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paladin_ · 2012-10-26T23:14:08+00:00

How do you guys find it in yourselves to go out alone? It's really hard to do it by myself, I don't know where I should go (don't really know the best spots at my city). I'm somehow afraid that it's going to be really boring and just keep trying to find people to go with, so I always have someone to talk to in case everything goes apeshit... I wanted to be able to be independent in that area, how did you guys manage to sort it out?

syseddit · 2012-10-26T23:24:39+00:00

Hi. I have the opposite problem from a lot of people here. This girl (not gf, but we have fooled around) is basically smothering me. She will text me right after we get out of class and keep texting me. But its not even that we are talking about interesting things, she will just fire questions at me for hours. (I had some insight with this one because I think I used to do this to girls and would always wonder why they didn't like me. I feel like I am in an interview, all the time). Also, she is beginning to copy things I say, which I know is normal, but its like we are fusing into one person.

TL;DR My question is, how can I get her to stop smothering me or even possibly how to break it off without it being awkward (we have several classes together)? Thank you guys!

yagelbee · 2012-10-27T01:24:01+00:00

Hey. I work nights and never get a chance to go out. Any advice on internet dating or meeting people in the daytime. I'm confident on my game at parties and other events like that, but getting to know someone at a coffee shop or someplace like that unnerves me. Thanks

flamingOreos · 2012-10-27T04:15:56+00:00

What would be a timeline based on age or point in life for sedditors?

For example:

Highschool
Limiting Factors: Allowance based/ I live with my parents
Demographic: Fellow Highschool Students
Logistics: Parents house when they are away/ Hotel for prom
Date ideas: Free outdoor activities
Place/Event: Prom

College:
Limiting Factors: What allowance?
Demographic: Fellow Students
Logistics: Dorm room
Place/Event: Frat Parties

Right-Out of college (Officially Unemployed)
Limiting Factors: I am broke as fuck.
Demographic: ?
Logistics: Dorm room
Place/Event: Frat Parties

Stable Income
Limiting factors: Time
...
What else?

koolaidman123 · 2012-10-27T06:02:40+00:00

What are some good ways of isolating on the dance floor? Generally how long should I dance for before isolating?

roxxe · 2012-10-26T15:38:22+00:00

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jshrlzwrld02 · 2012-10-26T16:57:03+00:00

I'm trying to initiate interactions with this girl that I really only get the chance to talk to online because she's away at college... how do you approach something like this?

andrey_b · 2012-10-26T22:08:27+00:00

Hooked up with a girl a couple times after a long dry spell. Emotions have sent me reeling. How do I deal? I'd like to keep approaching girls.

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/26/2012
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Date	October 26, 2012 3:30 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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