This may be may be a question for /r/askseddit. Let me know and I'll move it.

I've noticed girls are busier these days. I had sort of a two year gap, and I swear it's much, much harder to schedule things. And I'm better at this, not worse.

Obviously, I could fix this by increasing their attraction. I'm working on that. But it's not just an attraction issue. I've noticed scheduling stuff with guy friends is harder too.

I've got number from a lot of university girls recently. They all say they haven't gone out in weeks, and are swamped with mid-terms and papers. From talking to female friends I'm not gaming, they're not lying.

This is kind of rambly, so my questions are:

  1. Do girls seem busier these days, compared to just a couple of years back?
  2. What do you do about it?

So far, I'm just getting more numbers, and focussing on the ones who actually have time to meet.

Edit: Specifically, I'm referring to girls in college. I don't have this issue with girls that graduated.