The following is college advice, however I think it can applied in the real world too,

Create Compelling Spectacles, it's one of the 48 laws of power that Robert Greene attributes to the successful powerbrokers in history.

Subsequently it also has a lot to do with pick up. Too often I get emails/messages from you guys asking, "How do I find a party if I'm underage", "How do I get a frat to admit me", "I'm having trouble finding parties to go to". All of which are legitimate questions, but I think many of you are missing the point,

You have to create your own fun. Relying on others to create your fun for you takes you out of control of the interaction. If you want an example look at my previous FR

Hold your own parties and you acquire insane amounts of social proof, you become the social center of a womans universe, if 3 weekends in a row you either throw a party at your place or invite girls to your friends party, who is she going to text on the 4th week when she's bored and wants something to do?

Essentially what I'm getting at is that all of these number and K closes aren't just potential F closes, they can be turned into a valubale social circle. Invite them out, they think you're fun, they invite their friends, the friends have a good time and suddennly you're the guy that throws good parties and most of all is known for creating FUN.

It is infinetly harder to create fun at a venue that you do not control, (unless you isolate/take the girl on a date). However when you control the venue and the interaction you can think of a myriad of ways for your women to have fun.

This is the number one lesson that I'm learning from the game. Going to other peoples parties and all is great for MEETING women, but to seduce them it's so much easier if you invite them into your FUN life. If your life isn't fun, then a random girl at a party might come home with you, but she wont continue coming back to your place if you're a boring dude who doesnt provide any value to her life.

In the end enrich the lives of others and your life will be enriched

tl;dr: Don't go to the party, BE THE PARTY


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