What are your methods for creating a sexual conversation?

puaCurveBall · 2013-09-10T04:09:10+00:00

Sometimes, I feel like she sees right through my tactics, but not always.

Totally wrong inner game there. If you are being congruent, then there is nothing to "see through".

When you see things this way, that is how you project them as well. You are giving reasons for women to reject you.

JihadDerp · 2013-09-10T18:03:12+00:00

Here are some examples of things I've done recently:

Out on a date with a girl. She had a burn mark on her thigh (she was wearing shorts). I touched it with my finger and asked "What happened here?" She told me. I tease, "Hm... it doesn't look too good. Maybe you should have worn pants if you were trying to impress me." She goes on about how OMG I'm so self conscious now (jokingly). I say, in a half joking devious tone, "It's okay, I wasn't planning on feeling up your legs anytime soon..." Things progressed from there and we ended up making out.

Another girl I was talking to online... yada yada about her boyfriend. I interrupt and say, "Not if, but when you and your current fling stops working out, you know we're going to get married right?" Such forward comments are almost always dealt with in a half joking manner with girls. So naturally, she goes on with, "Oh? And how is our married life going to be?" And I say something about how it depends on her performance during the honeymoon.

Basically, bring up something about her body or your relationship, and if she has half a personality, it's easy to turn sexual. Sorry if this was a shitty comment with bad examples.

NaturalAFC · 2013-09-10T10:39:25+00:00

You need to just bring up a light sexual topic unapologetically and then progress as needed. Usually if you clear the air of the taboo of talking about sexual stuff first, the conversation dam will open up. Be bold but not vulgar. If she burps or something "unladylike" tell her how sexy it is. If she's showing a lot of cleavage, remark about how it's distracting. Just keep a joking frame and you can get away with a lot. For instance, the other day the first sexual topic I brought up with a girl was anal. We ended up going home together.

Willem20 · 2013-09-10T08:27:12+00:00

I think the most important thing is your tonality. A mate of mine, great lad, but he is always very excited about everything. That's a great skill, dont get me wrong, but because of this he doesnt make her feel really 'sexy'.

Once you've got better at that, it's just about the words you say, the topics you come up with, and as you probably knew, it doesnt matter what you say, but why.

AngraMainyuu · 2013-09-10T13:17:51+00:00

Pesonally Im working on being blunt about it, honest but appropriate to the situation, and matter-of-fact. Its like "Hey, you look really sexy in that dress." No expectations, no tactics, you're just speaking your mind. That's the kind of approach that I want when escalating, no games, straight to the point, but with a smile and a casual attitude.

Mooninites7 · 2013-09-10T06:49:50+00:00

It sounds like you're trying to be devious about your sexual intentions rather than straight forward about it

lavadru · 2013-09-10T22:39:53+00:00

By far the easiest most full proof way to turn a conversation sexual is to play the question game. This basically where you take turns asking each other questions. I generally throw a joke in how it's otherwise known as conversation.

Step 1. Tell her we're gonna play the question game.

Step 2. Ask her 3 random questions- I usually try to get her to brag or share a vulnerability.

Step 3. Start asking sexual questions- Favorite position, biggest turn on, craziest place etc.

If you do it right she'll start asking you sexual questions and before you know it, the conversation will get very sexual very quick.

Idontlikekarmawhores · 2013-09-10T12:49:08+00:00

I do something that I find hilarious - I keep my conversations really innocent, but I make my physicality/kino extremely sexual. It's honestly really funny and I keep grinning to myself sometimes. And it seems quite effective because it gives girls plausible deniability, while keeping the sexuality more under the surface.

donit · 2013-09-10T17:09:30+00:00

The key is it has to be done with an upper edge, or on an equal plane, so it's not supplicating or putting her on a pedestal. This can be quite a challenge to accomplish. One focus can be on your wanting her, without implying everyone wanting her.

Example: You're beautiful/sexy implies she is that way to everyone, so it pushes her up, and away from you.

Better: You're exactly what I want! (You're just telling her about yourself, and your wants, and since it references a connection between you, she appreciates this compliment more.)

slcjosh · 2013-09-10T22:02:37+00:00

I just always wait for queues. I had one recently with a sexy bartender that was serving me and some friends. It just came up naturally in conversation, but something came up about teasing a girl if you like her.

The context was :

blah blah blah

Her: So, its like when you were little, and you liked a girl, so you pulled her hair, right?

Me, making intense eye contact and smirking at her: Well, If i like a girl i STILL pull her hair

Then i held the line. Held it like a champ. just kept eye contact and a shit eating smirk.

She laughed, said "wow i set you up for that one" and i just continued my fun time with my friends. Within a minute or two, she was paying attention to no one else but me in the bar, and my conversation with her remained very, very sexual.

It doesnt have to be forced, just listen for your queue, thats always another way to go about it.

2013-09-11T01:18:43+00:00

One method I like to do is pretend I'm talking with one of my bros. You know how guys always joke around about sex with eachother? Do that (you gotta play it off as funny), and then slowly center it more towards her and make it more direct and less humorous.

L1AM · 2013-09-11T01:43:39+00:00

prerequisite: have some semblance of abs

I've found this to work every time I've used it so far. You do have to wait for an appropriate cue in the conversation, but it's a decently broad topic:

Tell her matter-of-factly that the reasons why girls and all culture loves guys with abs is because of their role in making sex amazing.

This is true on both accounts, and generally leads to wondering about, if not outright feeling, your abs. She's close, and this gives you a great chance to rapidly climb the kino ladder.

Or, tease her about it! While removing her hands and holding them, joke something along the lines of

Hands off the merchandise! Nope, nope, this is not for you! You're not allowed to do that yet!

these are great for the push/pull factor in conversation. Works like magic.

Title	What are your methods for creating a sexual conversation?
Author	PlayFair
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Date	September 10, 2013 3:55 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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