Dumb question, but let me explain a little bit.

I’m 20, virgin, and I do have friends, but I don’t think they’re as close/fun as maybe I’d want to. They have pretty low-SMV. I see them like once a month, and they’re not as fun as I’d like to, they just want to play video games or go to the cinema.

This is my fault, I spent my childhood/teen years playing video games and jerking off, I was an addict to both, and I didn’t was interested in socializing at all, I didn’t wanted friends or a girlfriend, all because I was escaping into porn and video games. I was being invited to parties, I was being asked out by some girls, I ignored all of them, they were a “waste of time”

I took a year off before entering college because I didn’t know what to study. And this year I dedicated to solve those things, I’ve been trying NoFap to solve that addiction, I quit entirely video games, I started lifting in the gym, I learnt to play an instrument, I got a job (which I just quitted), I joined boxing and English classes (not my main language),

I’ve been doing real things, but it’s like since I screwed it, I can no longer be part of a social group, my former classmates post photos of them reuniting in parties, etc... and I’m not even their friend anymore. I dot go to parties or even to a bar with friends, because my only small group of friends doesn’t even do that.

This is maybe a dumb post, but any tip in “re-entering in the social world” or knowing new people would be appreciated,