Girl way out of my league is into me, what do I do?

sfaer · 2014-03-29T10:47:01+00:00

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phenix131 · 2014-03-29T11:09:33+00:00

there are no leagues.. REPEAT IT!!! there are no leagues!!!!

RoyDraige · 2014-03-29T10:22:37+00:00

If she likes you already, why would you change? Don't hit the panic button, just straight up say you feel the same. Take things from there

op-pls · 2014-03-29T10:28:05+00:00

From your point of view she's a 9.5

What do you think you're from her point of view? Why would she want to date you if you're not enough?

You seems to be pretty close friends so just ask her for a cup of coffee or something and when you get to the table sit like right next to her. Shoulders touching, legs touching and just go from there.

Or... you could sweep her off her feet. Either way, there's never any reason as to why you wouldn't be enough for anyone.

TheBereavedBanana · 2014-03-29T11:49:47+00:00

You're overthinking it man.

__sebastien · 2014-03-29T10:30:11+00:00

Why are you asking yourself that ? She's into you, just go for it and be yourself. Act normal.

PS : If she has a crush on you and almost asked you out, she's definitely not out of your league, she proved that already. Go for it buddy !

Edit : typo

lesbianDREAMS · 2014-03-29T11:04:49+00:00

Just text her to hang out. "Wanna go get some coffee tonight?". She likes you so she'll say yes, or she'll at least set a date at another time if shes busy. Heck I bet you could walk up to her without saying anything and kiss her.

PowerSeductionWar · 2014-03-29T11:27:16+00:00

She might not even know she's 9.5 or whatever.

Some of the hottest girls believe they are 5s or 6s because they are comparing themselves to the most very beautiful, not the average girls.

Just be cool. Act entitled to that girl.

And who knows, you might be exactly like her and have a self-image problem

teh_booth_gawd · 2014-03-29T11:40:02+00:00

Bitch, she's not out of your league. Putting yourself in that mindset is problem #1.

Shes a person, just as you. Just don't act like a needy bitch and you're golden Ponyboy.

ScrottyMcboogerballs · 2014-03-29T11:52:13+00:00

Take your Penny when you can Leonard.

sloshslapper · 2014-03-29T11:52:30+00:00

"She straight up texted me that she has a crush on me."

You literally have no work to do. You cannot screw this up unless you literally vomit all over her from nervousness or something like that. Get out of your head and thank Eros for blessing you with this fine wench.

HappyJerk · 2014-03-29T17:00:52+00:00

There are no "leagues." I'm being dead serious. I'm not saying that as some pseudo-motivational bullshit advice. There are no leagues. As you grow up in life you will super hot super awesome with the worst men on earth ALL THE FUCKING TIME. You will kick yourself if you fuck this up and later see her with a guy who is even lamer than you.

I like this girl but I have no idea on how to proceed without completely screwing up my chances with her.

Ask her on a nice date, and be confident, etc... Don't do anything different than if she were a normal-looking girl. Don't let your insecurities fuck you up.

Smeurtje · 2014-03-29T12:12:30+00:00

Shes in your league dude. Accept it

BlueIsStylinOnYou · 2014-03-29T13:12:26+00:00

"She is out my league"

Get that shit out of your head bro. She's into YOU. I don't believe in leagues, but if I did, I'd tell you that means that you're in the league above her.

Confidence is key, friend!

The_Amp_Walrus · 2014-03-29T13:16:26+00:00

Same thing we do every night, Pinky.

ZoomZoomBlondie · 2014-03-29T13:47:35+00:00

Be whoever it is you've been up to this point, she obviously likes that.

Don't think of her as being "out of your league", clearly she doesn't, and enjoy and appreciate the fact that someone you think is smoking hot thinks YOU are smoking hot as well.

2014-03-29T16:12:52+00:00

Nobody is out of your league. This is AFC thinking. EDIT: To answer the second half of your question, "What do I do?"

Be yourself.

2014-03-29T17:31:18+00:00

Celebrate!

A_Suffering_Panda · 2014-03-29T19:27:35+00:00

Stop making her reject you before she's had a chance to make up her mind. Well actually she already has made up her mind, in a good way. Ask her on a date, and while on it remember that she wants you to kiss her. This isnt along the lines of fake it til you make it, she actually does, it would be an insult to her if you dont

acratophorus · 2014-03-29T19:42:00+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides.

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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

sloshslapper · 2014-03-29T10:35:11+00:00

If you think you are effectively obliged to panic and screw up, you will.

I could suggest that you simply don't invest the whole of your emotional welfare and self-esteem in what may or may not eventually transpire, but I suspect you will be simply incapable of that.

Whether she is a 9.5/10 or a 1.5/10, the statistical probability is that it will never come to anything in the long term. That is just the way things are. However, if you feel that you don't 'deserve' to be in that position then you will kill off things much sooner than might otherwise happen.

Apart from all that, she may be a 9.5/10 in the looks department, but when you get to really know her she could turn out out be an insecure, possessive, jealous, shrieking, harridan and you might find yourself wanting to run for the hills no matter what she looks like.

Title	Girl way out of my league is into me, what do I do?
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Date	March 29, 2014 10:16 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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