You guys must spend a lot....

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-07-08T14:26:53+00:00

Work.

mahuchu · 2014-07-08T14:40:16+00:00

I spend next to nothing on dates man, you don't need to go out to dinner and drinks every night.

For example in my city there's an outdoor skating rink that has free skate rentals that I take girls to in the winter. Beforehand I grind and press my own coffee and make us lattes to bring in travel mugs, costs about $1 for coffee and milk and the girls love it more than all of the other cheesy dates.

Find something fun to do in your city and make yourself stand out from all the other guys doing the same old boring dinner and drink dates. If you've already gone on a first date do something outside like hiking and pack a bottle of wine and some cheese to eat while you're out there. Play tennis at a local outdoor court for free, walk down a busy street and watch street performers or see if there are any free events or concerts around.

joshsway · 2014-07-08T18:59:22+00:00

Don't underestimate the value of having a good career, not just monetary, btw. Though, if you are seeing multiple girls after the initial date or two, most dates can just be "come over and have sex".

Psych40 · 2014-07-08T14:11:24+00:00

I'm very new at this, but I have a sense if your game is done properly, you don't have to spend much beyond keeping your wardrobe snappy (and on your own drinks, if you're a drinker).

ollakolla · 2014-07-08T15:23:32+00:00

I don't. Honestly. I never buy the first drink or open that way. It is very cliche. I also like to project that I am not there to do things for her or buy things for her just because she's a woman.

Don't get me wrong. I am not cheap. If things are going well I will gladly pick up her tab, but I don't start with that.

Generally speaking, if you are buying your way in, you aren't seducing.

trustmeiminnocent · 2014-07-08T20:18:43+00:00

When I plan to go on dates, I go take them somewhere on my college campus. No car so that's really my only option, has kept my wallet full of bucks so far.

DaygameCoach · 2014-07-09T04:16:42+00:00

This article of mine is DC specific but might still be helpful:

http://www.daygamer.net/2012/03/18/budget-date-planning-101/

ultrasuperthrowaway · 2014-07-08T15:53:56+00:00

Date women who can afford their own lifestyles. I don't date losers just how a woman wouldn't date a loser either. 6 figures or bust.

Title	You guys must spend a lot....
Author	jonjt
Upvotes	9
Comments	16
Date	July 8, 2014 2:06 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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