Becoming the Man Women Pursue

Darkly_Optimistic · 2014-11-13T18:10:21+00:00

I definitely read the title as "becoming the man woman purse"

TheSicilianDude · 2014-11-14T00:03:02+00:00

Love articles like these. Simple, straightforward, and proves you don't need "tricks" to be desired by women. Have an awesome life, respect yourself, and have a genuine love for women.

navitaggar · 2014-11-13T19:09:35+00:00

Here's the thing: all this advice works exactly the same way for women. Everything that's mentioned here, if a women did those things then my attraction for her would increase.

thebochman · 2014-11-14T00:20:33+00:00

This is excellent dude, just read some of your other articles and they're also very enlightening. Noticed you're based in Boston too haha, represent!

Pilot11 · 2014-11-14T06:15:32+00:00

This is an insane article... good shit, Miroki.

NastyPark97 · 2014-11-16T05:07:57+00:00

Damn, those moments you realize what you're doing wrong after you messed up.

cariusQ · 2014-11-13T18:34:41+00:00

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NickNotas · 2014-11-13T21:25:04+00:00

Saved, thanks for this Mr. Nick Notas

2014-11-14T09:48:26+00:00

Omg ok so let me just share this snipit of my life with you internet. I'm a sophomore in college and my first year of college was terrible lady wise. Over this course I had sex with three girls I wasn't really attracted to (only three girls ever slept with at the time) this included losing my virginity. The whole year I was constantly asking guys what was wrong with me, best ways to get girls, etc. to top off this really shitty year I blew it with the hottest girl I've ever hooked up with very quickly(fooling around, no sex). I ended freshmen year of college very self-conscious of myself. Some of the things that I thought might be the problem was that I wasn't attractive enough, even though I'm at least average lookin, or that I smoked to much reefer( since I didn't really talk much when I was high) to me this was big cause I'm a huge stoner and am most often high when I encounter women unless in class. Fast forward to right now, I'm consistently having sex with one girl, hooking up with another, and another girl who wants to hang out with me ( pretty sure she wants the d). So what kind of magic pills did I take over the summer you ask? None, I just decide "you know what ima just stop giving a fuck" and like fucking magic I'm gettin with girls I didn't think was possible for me and my confidence is through the god damn roof I'm on a cloud of joy right now. A lot of side effects of not giving a fuck resulted in the actions listed in the article like not trying to force the convo, not spending money on the girls( I've just invited the girls to come hang out and watch netflix or they invite themselves). I used to make being poor an excuse for girls not into me. Anyways I just think this article is on point and wanted to share, thanks for reading.

TlDR; this article is on point and you should just read my god damn story you lazy piece of shit.

VirtualAnarchy · 2014-11-13T20:01:40+00:00

Great read!

NickNotas · 2014-11-14T05:14:18+00:00

Great article. Loved your previous article as well. keep it up

staggerlee63 · 2014-11-14T11:11:27+00:00

This is the best thing I've seen on this sub

Akaflyingmuffin · 2014-11-14T14:05:13+00:00

This may be the first article I've read that actually illuminated my own issues. I've tried way too hard way too early because I desperately craved approval from pretty girls I didn't really know. I'm gunna try to add some of this to my life. Thanks guy

Alphadestrious · 2014-11-14T22:48:38+00:00

Spot on article and sometimes we need a refresher on the fundamentals of game. It's easy to lose sight of certain fundamentals at times.

sordnax · 2014-12-14T09:33:21+00:00

Thank you for this article! #18 really hit home especially this "If you have to beg a girl to give you a chance, you’re already setting yourself up for failure." I've chased a woman and pretty much begged her in a way (indirectly) to go out with me. The first date had a good start but a bad ending. Second date (with the same woman), didn't go as well either and I'm still on the chase. I should know by now that I've already failed and this was the eye opener that I needed. Thank you.

Aznpersuasion15 · 2014-11-13T19:42:09+00:00

How about if you have been on a couple dates with them and they start to lose interest? At first, I was being pursued and now, I find myself pursuing her more than she is pursuing me.

thebakerbastard · 2014-11-14T10:33:44+00:00

Great stuff but yet again this is just a reformatting of Mark Manson's material.

raimondi1337 · 2014-11-13T17:11:15+00:00

She invested in you by getting ready and being vulnerable enough to come out on a date.

Stopped reading there.

funfwf · 2014-11-14T00:44:01+00:00

Everything in the article: 10% of the equation

Your looks: 90% of the equation

Pretty simple.

Title	Becoming the Man Women Pursue
Author	NickNotas
Upvotes	387
Comments	45
Date	November 13, 2014 3:43 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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