I have GF of 2.5 years. Hotter ex is throwing herself at me wants me to do everything to her totally unattached and secretively. What would trp do?

Mr_Bell · 2013-11-11T06:56:29+00:00

You need to learn these things for yourself. It doesn't matter what TRP says, this isn't /askwomen. Our subjective opinion has nothing to do with what your best move is, and it would be silly for us to believe our thoughts on cheating represented the absolute, objective reality of the situation. But since you asked -

Personally, if she is LTR, wifey material, then I wouldn't do it. A truly great girl is rare and if you have that and she loves you, then from a purely logical standpoint, the risk of losing that for some pussy you've already had is not a balanced trade.

But if she is an average GF or kinda meh, or you were thinking the relationship is past the expiration date anyway, than this can be a good catalyst. If you needed an excuse to man up and breakup, this is it.

I'm not a fan of sneaking around and breaking people's trust. But I have cheated too - that's why I know that I'm not a fan of it. I think you need to gain personal data first.

If you are going to cheat and expect to get away with it, then you better keep your game tight and not get emotional. Women are smart - they know when something is off. So be prepared to be an ice cold motherfucker if you are going to do it.

angryadult · 2013-11-11T11:24:58+00:00

Tell your current GF. Watch the sex get hotter.

dublinclontarf · 2013-11-11T15:50:20+00:00

It's a trap! If your X knows who your current girlfriend is all she has to do is tell her about your "activities".

Your current girlfriend will break up with you and probably wont tell you who told her and you'll be free for your X to get back together with.

At least that is what I would imagine your X is currently thinking.

M3_Drifter · 2013-11-11T10:50:32+00:00

The TRP'ed man does what he wants, not what someone else wants.

If you want to stay with your current girlfriend for reasons beyond easy access to pussy and/or fear of being alone, don't cheat.

If you decide to pursue sex with the ex, make sure to think long and hard about how your relationship worked and how you may or may not have changed since. It's usually a bad idea going back to a dud. And remember to always be safe from STDs and forced fatherhood - wear a condom.

[deleted] · 2013-11-11T09:03:18+00:00

There's no right answer according to TRP. We can tell you what to expect when dating or in a relationship. But these questions are best left to your own ethical standards.

A few questions that might help you figure this out:

What kind of relationship is this, a LTR/possible future wife? Are you ok with open relationships in the future?

The fact that a more attractive woman has you thinking of cheating means that you really aren't that committed to this girl. You'll meet plenty of attractive women in your life. The temptation will always be there, so start thinking of what you want your response to such interest to be for the sake of consistency.

[deleted] · 2013-11-11T17:31:42+00:00

One time when I was 17, I got a message from the friend of my GF at the time. She said that we didn't have to only hang out with each other when my GF was around, we could also hang out alone, just the two of us.

I didn't respond to that message, and screenshotted it and sent it to my GF.

Later on I realized that they were probably together when she sent that message, or possibly my GF sent it from her account, and I did the best possible thing.

All because I thought her friend was ugly as sin.

[deleted] · 2013-11-12T20:06:58+00:00

If you want to have a hot and heavy one time thing with the ex just to deviate a bit, go for it. Just be ready to man up and admit it to your girlfriend. If you can't do that, then you know your answer.

If you want to continue have sex with the ex on the side then break it off with the girlfriend. She'll only get in the way and if you really want that then you don't need to be in a relationship.

In short: be a man and admit it or break up with her.

aaron_the_just · 2013-11-15T17:52:59+00:00

TRP thinks LTRs / monogamy are not a good idea.

http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/05/26/a-ltr-is-not-a-mini-marriage/

Be honest with your current gf. She might dump you or deny access to her pussy if you tell her you don't want to be exclusive. Is she worth it?

Nemester · 2013-11-11T22:22:52+00:00

Probably a troll but.... If you want to have sex with other women, why are you in a relationship at all? If you feel that strong of an urge, maybe it is time to quit the relationship and play the field.

Pushnikov · 2013-11-20T02:02:21+00:00

Depending on your GF just tell her you're going to bang your ex for a while, you don't want to go back to her.

You'd be surprised how some chicks are cool with you fucking other chicks as long as it's not deceitful and you're dominant enough that she'd rather let you do that than risk losing you.

EtovNowd · 2013-11-11T07:05:36+00:00

I'd keep her as a side piece. But I have no moral stigma on cheating, and that's simply because I assume people will always cheat so don't judge/criticize them for it.

[deleted] · 2013-11-11T07:09:51+00:00

Cheat. Its only a matter of time before your LTGf cheats on you for one stupid reason or the other. Just make sure you have plausible deniability

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