From the past few months, I've been doing tons of approachs and have gotten numbers, most of them flakes but i got a lot of positive results too. In fact I've been doing seduction since the end of 2014, but I never had such a unconfortable experience like the one that happened today.
I went to the mall center with a friend who wanted to buy some clothes. After that we were watching some kind of music show outside the mall.
And then, 3 girls come behind us; lets call them A, B and C. It seems like A knows my friend, she touches his shoulder and starts chatting with him.
B and C were behind me. I turn around to introduce myself to A and then i hear this from B and C as they look at me ''C:what about him?.. B:oh god no hahaha''.
I just introduced myself to B and C. A was close to my friend talking to him, and I was next to the other girls.
They told us that they were bored and didnt know what to do. I didnt have any money at the time and was just tired from a long day at college so I suggested that we should take a walk.
B looked at me and said ''Walk?'' like if I just said something wrong and pulled C and A from me and my friend while whispering some shit to A's ear.
The three of them walked a few meters away from us and sitted on a bench. Me and my friend, we just followed them there and we just standed in front of them trying to get the conversation going again.
At this point I was really pissed off because of B's reactions towards me. I could tell that she really didnt like me at all. I tried asking her where she studied and she just said ''Ehhh you'll probably don't know the place'' and then look at ther phone. Later I told them how i changed my career choice las semester and B said to me ''So you are very insecure''.
Then i remembered when she said ''oh god no'' and this got me even more nervous. My face was feeling warmer and i could feel my cheeks get really red so, yeah, it was pretty awkward.
I tried to hold my ground and, eventually, i stopped the nervousness. These three girls were laughing nervously and seemed really uncofortable, mostly because none of us knew what to do and my friend started asking some really dumb questions (he was actually really nervous, later on he told me how he gets unconfortable with 5+ groups of people).
After some nonesense chit chat B whispered to A '' Lets just go''.
Overall it was really fucking awkward. I can't even remember the last time i got nervous while talking to a girl. It hasnt happened to me in years. I guess the ''oh god no'' from the getgo really fucked up my mind and all went downhill after all.
My ego hurted so much, guys. I know I sound like a bitch right now, but Ive never felt this disrespected and like losing control of the situation.
I was devastated and my friend could tell. He told me to forget it, it was just 3 girls. We walked and talked some more and then I remembered that getting rejected shouldnt be a big deal. I was still alive. The world didn't end.
So I just forced myself to get rejected again the same night and direct approached two hot girls. The two of them said ''No thanks'' and, guess what, i didnt give a flying fuck.
After these two rejections, what happened earlier with ''B'' didnt seem to matter that much and I was in peace.
What I want to get through this post is the fact that rejections will happen if you are on this journey. Meeting this shallow girl taught me that people like her actually exist, and it shouldnt bring me down. The experience i had tonight made me a stronger man and I want to tell you that rejections are necessary in order to improve.
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