Firstly, I apologize for the shitty formatting.

TL;DR advice from this post. Will edit as they come:

  1. Women are not inferior. They behave differently than men. Nowhere in this post have I claimed them to be less than man. I like women and always have and I am learning what it takes for them to desire me.

  2. "This gives off a very objectifying vibe." And women have never objectified you? Or used you for money, sympathy, food, friends, to get to another guy? Both sexes need to objectify in terms of sex. We are eachother's release. Whenever you're done fucking, treat them like a damn person that they are.

  3. "A legitimate and responsible option." Give people a clear indication as to why you do what you do. In a relationship where one cares about the other person, behavior shouldn't appear random. An excuse is something you give when you are wrong. You use an excuse to lessen the blame or the offensiveness of something. What you're doing is giving women options.

  4. Be a rock. Never lose your mental frame or you lose your control.

  5. Being a dick for the sake of being a dick will get you nowhere. It's all about context: is it the appropriate response given the woman's behavior?

  6. Your game isn't about numbers, it's about seeing change in your behaviors and women's responses.

  7. All women will have sex and they want to have sex but you have to build up to that. (See anti-slut defenses.)

  8. Think about your mental frame this way: if you've already put the work in to be a better you, women need to work for your attention and rewarded behavior. It's a compromise.

  9. Emotional connectivity can be there and it may be necessary for some. Always keep in mind what your goal is and progress slowly. Don't seem eager.

Long version:

Status update. In the past month I have had 3 hookups, one arranged threesome (they nerved and flaked), one flopped hookup, and over six new phone numbers and at least four girls I'm working to meetup with since we're texting now.

This isn't incredible, especially with the flops, but it is incredible for me. A month ago I had zero idea on how to get a woman interested in me enough to get their number let alone want to spend alone time with me so soon. How the hell did it work? A month ago, the way I viewed women was completely different. The next following paragraphs I'll share the new mindset I put myself in. I have to consciously put effort to think these ways. Even physically I would refuse to sexually objectify women right away. I couldn't have been more wrong. I hope some of you walk away thinking about the game differently like I am.

I'll start off with saying I stopped being a nice guy in college. As soon as I became "more of a dick" to women, women were interested in me. This feminism bullshit, women deserve respect fuckery, and thinking there should be a special connection for sex is all garbage. Edit: For those of you white-knighting and bailing on the post because of this, you're doing yourself an injustice. I refused to give a woman my sympathies or compliments at this point and it worked. I got laid at 19.

Women are horny, if not hornier than men. They have what is called an anti-slut defense mechanism that prevents them from acting out on their urges. This is where a man comes into play. Our job is to disable those defenses and give them guilt-free sex. It's all they want. They're biologically designed to have babies. They crave the D but first you may have to put them in their place, disable their defenses, and get them in the mindset for sex.

Story time.

I was headed out of town to see a girl an hour away. I thought this would be an f-close. I've been with her kind of personality before. What was a good text conversation (I got my haircut, I'll head out tonights) turned ugly when she asked what time I was leaving. I told her around 5pm and it takes an hour and a half to get there. She flipped her shit and said I didn't care about her or respect her. She had cancelled plans and didn't bother to communicate this with me that she had a specific time in mind for us to see eachother when we agreed it would be whenever she got off work and I got there. I told her she was over reacting and that I don't have time for this right now-- I'm on the road 45 minutes out to see her. A legitimate and responsible excuse. As I tried to put her in her place: she needed to be calm and not react this way and I can't talk right now, she gave me more shit. This is where continuously texting her would be a reward because I'm giving her attention. I told her I wasn't seeing her anymore.

Notice I used the excuse to not give her attention. You need to be thinking of legit excuses for your behavior as a man and you don't have to explain yourself at all. These open opportunities. Also, I didn't block her. Never burn bridges (unless she's a total bitch and you don't need negativity in your life. That lay will not be worth the life poison). Even right now, she's texting me. She's still mad, but I don't give a fuck and I'm putting her in her place.

Ignoring a woman drives them crazy. They crave attention especially from the men they want the attention from. Following up with this, she started posting about me on her facebook (no names though). That's good. That means she's thinking about me. If she talks to her friends, they'll know I don't put up with childish bullshit. What she was trying to do was control me.

Always be in control with women. You can occasionally let a woman think she's in control, but when a shit test comes along, put them in their place. This doesn't mean be an abusive dick. This just means don't let women put a leash on you. It should be the other way around. A feminist woman I dated had hands-down the best sex of my life. As much as she claimed she wanted equality and respect for women, she wanted to be dominated in bed "like a bitch". Her words. Controlling her was hard though. Emotional roller coasters are something you have to be ready to counter at all times. I was there for emotional support as a reward but I wasn't hesitant to tell her when she was fucking wrong.

Women need to work for your approval. How much work they need to put in is really up to you. A woman will respect your actions toward them if they feel they've earned it. This makes you seem like the real deal to them. But don't ever make yourself seem exciting or quality bf material. Girls don't put out in the boyfriend zone. They'll make you work for that. Fuck buddy > boyfriend zoned > friend zoned. If relationships are something you want, remember transitioning from fuck buddy to bf is easier than sliding in from friend zone.

Remember if you're going to punish bad behavior by ignoring, cutting off, or talking them down for a sec, you need to also reciprocate with rewards whenever they behave well. I like a girl who can make funny faces, keep an intellectual conversation, and isn't afraid to show their creative or geeky side-- but only when these things happen. Rewarding behavior can be as simple as giving them your attention.

Go out there and stop giving a fuck. Women work for you, not the other way around.

Edit: Remember to move on. There are hundreds if not thousands of women in your area. It's up to you how quickly you game. Intellectual women game slower than materialistic women. Move on especially if a woman isn't putting in any effort to meet with you or communicate. This has been a hiccup for many guys. Look at the facts and not just your next step.

Edit 2: This goes along with the edit above. Speaking numbers, I've lost more than I have succeeded for many reasons. The girl wasn't my type, she wasn't working with my dynamics, or plans fell through. These things happen. Remember to move on.