How do rich guys get a lot of hot girls?

YoungCaesar · 2015-08-06T02:29:14+00:00

All of the answers on here are wrong.

its a social thing.

pretty girls hang out at exclusive places, usually because they are models, promoters, etc. The other people who hang out at exclusive places? Rich people // well-connected people.

Basically after a while you start running within a certain social stratosphere.

Edit: Further, the more successful you become the more successful people you hang out with.

IDontKnowHowToLife00 · 2015-08-06T02:05:09+00:00

Nice cars; Nice clothing+jewelry; Good health; Nice houses; ability to throw fucking awesome parties; VIP bottle service at nightclubs; expensive lunches/dinners.

psychedelia_91 · 2015-08-06T05:05:43+00:00

Rich guys who give their shit away to girls they're attracted to don't get that many girls actually.

Rich guys who dangle their riches in front of them and only give away tiny bits at most get a lot of them though.

not_his_nibs · 2015-08-06T02:11:07+00:00

Most rich guys I've seen get girls, would also get them if they were broke. Having hung around rich and broke, as far as getting laid the difference is minimal. It's usually they are rich and good looking. You don't really notice rich schlubby guys, because you don't envy them. Dating, LTR stuff it helps more because something, something provider. Whether she'll brag to her friends too.

Also there is an encouraged humility in the middle class that I think can make it harder in some ways for middle class guys to just get laid than either rich or working class guys. Both have a level of swagger, lack of unsupressed aggression that is exciting to women.

lasvegasfun · 2015-08-06T02:40:42+00:00

Some advantages of being rich is it can get you into exclusive parties, events and certain VIP areas at the clubs where only people spending money and hot girls are going to be. This isn't everything though. I am a Las Vegas club promoter and I don't know how many times I see the attractive girls go suck all the alcohol out of the guys spending money and then walk back to some other guys who have way better social skills. However putting a lot of attractive girls in front of you can be a good numbers game for them and there is a good chance they can connect with one eventually. Also rich people have access to websites such as sugardaddyforme and seekingarrangment. These websites are full of very attractive girls who are willing to take a weekly allowance to be their sugar baby. It is very common out here on the west coast. I know of girls who get paid 1-2k a week just to hangout with a rich guy once a month when he is in vegas. I would never want a girl this way as I like people who actually like me for me, but to each their own.

AdolfSchmitler · 2015-08-06T03:27:14+00:00

Wait what?! Guys it's not the money itself or the clubs or places money gets you into. Here lemme quote something "The whole point of making money is that it will allow you to provide for a future family, and that your value is increased when other people need and depend on you. So when a woman sees a man who has a lot of money, she automatically assumes that he has the money because he gives value to a lot of other people, and would give value to her if they were dating. The characteristic that allows him to earn the money is more important than the money is."

notmicelf · 2015-08-06T01:26:17+00:00

Listen, I'm 17, and my parents are rich. I flaunt it, too- I won't lie. But I'll tell you something.. It doesn't help at all. Most people I interact with say I'm snobbish, ignorant, and I "act like I'm better than everyone else". Of course, my friends don't think this. But it has been more of a burden than a blessing. I'm extremely self conscious as well, so I often resort to "buying" a girl's interest instead of earning it. I rely too much on money, because that's all I have. My best friend isn't rich at all- he actually considers himself poor. And even though I had a girlfriend before he did (in high school), he's still leagues above me in terms of game, and we started at the same point.

Just some food for thought.

aznkriss133 · 2015-08-06T03:51:43+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0gaYyNk7QA

2015-08-06T04:00:24+00:00

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What is this?

freaky_dee · 2015-08-06T06:37:24+00:00

I want to expand on the previous answers a bit. Yes, I agree that it's the persona that got you the riches is also the persona that will attract women.

I also agree that being in an exclusive club with the hottest girls will grant you "access" to them - to a point. I have a friend in a very big city who's very rich (let's say, enough to rent the best place in the best area of one of the top 3 cities in the US and leave $100 tips). I have been to such places, and the truth is, just because the girls are there, doesn't mean you don't still need game to get them.

Secondly, here's the other way that these guys get the girls. I met a girl once, she told me she was going to a "party" for rich guys. Essentially she works as a "model", and is paid to hang out with them. If a guy wants to fuck them, it's more $$. Of course, if a guy wants to keep that girl around, then he'll continue to spend $$ on her, and he can do this with as many women as he can afford. The sugar daddy concept has been around long before the websites existed. The sugar daddy can be a player too, simply doing only one night stands and dropping girls he doesn't like. Sometimes, girls will hang out with a rich guy and have sex with him in HOPES that he will shower her with money and gifts. So it's not a 1-1 transaction all the time. The catch is, you still need at least some game, or enough smarts to not be taken advantage of. I believe this is the real differentiator when it comes to rich people.

tamilgangster · 2015-08-06T11:44:18+00:00

Honestly being rich doesnt mean shit. Alot of rich guys get girls at clubs, but the girls are only coming for cheap drinks. The girls will end up banging a guy with game and is attractive. Being responsible, and stylish are traits associated with rich people but poor people can do it to. Being rich wont help you get laid unless u want to bang hookers or gold diggers. Hookers are cheaper than bottle service. Remember, women even sleep with homless guys if they are well groomed and have game.

PlatosPlatypus · 2015-08-06T17:51:00+00:00

I think people get this backwards much of the time. It is the attitude that one must have to become wealthy that women find attractive. In general, to acquire wealth (yes, there are exceptions) one must be disciplined, committed, confident, assertive. Money is a byproduct of this mindset. Women are a byproduct of this mindset.

2015-08-06T02:03:17+00:00

What are you basing this observation on? This is for the most part not true. The only exception would be, they may get more women who are extremely superficial and shallow, but even that is a bit of a stretch from what I've seen.

I've known several rich men who can't get a date to save their lives. One of them goes to bars, flashes his Rolex, wears thousand dollar suits, brags to women about his Mercedes, expensive imported African hardwood floors in his lavish downtown condo, and gets shot down just as often as any other guy I've seen. Generally speaking, women are not impressed by men like that.

Money doesn't buy confidence. In fact, many men try to make up for lack of confidence by flashing expensive things, expecting it will get them laid. It doesn't.

That said, it does help your chances. Just like being attractive helps your chances, but doesn't guarantee anything.

happyself · 2015-08-06T12:48:39+00:00

"Fuck You" $ = confidence = attraction.

Morokweng · 2015-08-06T13:10:43+00:00

I imagine that the pre-ironman playboy Tony Stark archetype is most likely just a Hollywood myth that you're believing.

If you rely entirely on money I imagine you're going to pay for lots of dates, and you're going to give girls a lot of validation from being seen with you and in whatever prestigious circles you inhabit, but I doubt you're going to sleep with more girls than anyone else can.

BigGeek43 · 2015-08-06T04:01:08+00:00

If you're a rich guy, you can take bootcamps over and over and hire Julien Blanc to teach you stuff and that is how you get girls :)

YRuafraid · 2015-08-06T02:28:39+00:00

I was in vegas this weekend. Me and my boys looked rich and got bottle service. We had the best/biggest table in the club with 15 bottles. Girls were swarming around us like a hawk, they knew we weren't some average chumps. That's just an example but if you are rich girls usually pick up that vibe

Title	How do rich guys get a lot of hot girls?
Author	anene12
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Date	August 6, 2015 1:20 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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