Using cocaine as a way to feel what it's like to be really confident and then harness that feeling without it, is this a terrible idea?

slamjeez · 2015-09-04T04:53:47+00:00

man, coke is considered the second most addictive drug. you may feel like you are in control but chances are it's just matter of time. i'd avoid it.

2015-09-04T02:03:15+00:00

Honestly I would stick with your gut on this one. If you say you're in controll, you better god damn own it.

Go experience life in a new way, and unlock this "potential" you talk about. You really don't need the drugs to unlock it, but it sure as hell makes you realize what your fully capable of. Be good. Do good. And have fun!

noxkilluminatixscope · 2015-09-04T05:37:28+00:00

worst idea i ever heard breh u gonna, as O.T. Genasis puts it, "fall in love with that coco". I bet ur already at the point where i offer you a key you'll accept and then spend the night asking for another or go out and find some.

niggawitabadback · 2015-09-04T03:22:47+00:00

SWIM loves cocaine. So much that for a period of time was addicted to it but overcame that and although still does occasionally, has learned to control it. It truly is a remarkable drug and will make you do anything, yes you will get that quick result you want. You'll do it then go up to a girl and say anything. You feel like you are immortal and the only thing that can replicate that feeling is adrenaline (I heard meth does too but SWIM hasn't done enough of that to be able to confirm).

BUT here are a few warnings that you MUST consider if this is the route you want to take: * You could do too much and literally be shaking to where you cant do anything (if it's potent or you do too much too soon) and your mouth actually gets numb.

*You'll first worry about taking a shit if you haven't already cleaned out your bowels.

*If you do just enough and don't have to shit, the next thing you have to deal with is wanting more. Because after 30-60 minutes you'll run out and be back to your normal self, or even worse lower than that and will NEED more.

The more you do, the less it lasts and the more you'll crave and the harder you will crash. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. If your progression is normal, i.e. what I just listed, then you will eventually do everything you have and when you run out may crash very hard...depressive, moody, upset for no reason, and sometimes yes even suicidal (if you've been doing it a lot lately). That alone will scare away SWIM from doing it sometimes. The crashes are hard and very unpleasant.

*Finally, if you are a perfect person and none of that affects you, and sometimes you won't have any of these effects (but rarely does this happen), and you somehow bring a girl back, then you need to consider impotence. Yes, cocaine can cause ED and its happened to SWIM many times. It could also be an aphrodisiac, but rarely does that happen.

So that's the run down, does SWIM still do it? Yes when it's presented and he's trying to wile out. But if you don't have experience (which I'm assuming you don't because that's not how brains work...it'll just tell your brain you ONLY can be confident on it) then I would recommend faking it until you make it and only use if you're just trying to have fun not as a social crutch. Cheers and best of luck.

Brady113 · 2015-09-04T02:07:55+00:00

I think the only possible benefit to your confidence is what you mentioned, you may realise your potential and be motivated by that. However, when you mention "harnessing", it comes across to me that you think you'll suddenly learn how to be confident or have some major insight into achieving that level of confidence. I don't think any of that will happen though. Here's why, alcohol makes you more confident too but doesn't do much for your confidence when sober. With that said, why cocaine when alcohol would give an effect similar to what your after? It just seems unnecessary.

EndOfTheUniverse · 2015-09-04T03:11:47+00:00

From experience... the confidence you get from cocaine, and the confidence you get from being on top of your game are two completely different types of confidence.

On cocaine...it's like no thought. Just do. Course correction isn't really around.

On top of your game... oh man the shit you do. You don't even know where it comes from.

Do you lift weights?

2015-09-04T03:25:17+00:00

For one thing, the chances that you are getting actual true and pure cocaine are pretty slim. Unless you have a trusted middleman, you are likely going to get ground up Adderall or Ritalin mixed with an anesthetic.

Cocaine doesn't really give you confidence per se, it just makes you feel good -- like you just won some huge award or something. Meth is the stuff that makes people way over-confident in their own abilities.

DerpThang · 2015-09-04T04:36:07+00:00

I guess I could tell you my experience (or continued experience with drugs and pickup). I love MDMA. Makes me feel like I can talk to anyone about anything, and I just need to share everything. Talking to girls was way easier for me, not that I did any better but at least I approached.

The problem was that I found it's very difficult to get myself to approach at all unless I'm high. I just make excuses when I go out about how this is just going to get me better until I'm where I wanna be with pickup. I'm not addicted to it by any means, I don't want to do it all the time. But it's now become a bit of a crutch. I don't get fired up to go out without it, and try to do approachs or really escalate without considering doing M first. I haven't made the progress I wanted with it is probably the most frustrating thing. Especially since I believe in it so much.

Cocaine is a little different to me. I'm not a fan as I really didn't like the always wanting more part, and the fakeness of it. That's just me though, some people like it better but can control it. More power to yah. I guess I would say that you should do it with a goal and boundaries in place. Once you achieve that goal with it, you're done. Cut it out. If you're not actually making, both sober and high, progress. Cut it out. If you're gonna work with it, you gotta be super realistic and respectful of the risks. You're mind is pretty clever with the lies it'll tell

CmonGuys · 2015-09-04T07:34:23+00:00

Taking ecstasy for the first time broke me out of my shell and I applied that confidence and lack of anxiety to my sober side. So it is definitely possible.

2015-09-04T10:01:20+00:00

Can i suggest that you use mdma first? XTC or MDMA is way less addictive and it actually open you up to talk to people, where with Cocaïne you can turn really annoying and selfcentred.

Cc99910 · 2015-09-04T10:43:55+00:00

Coke won't really make you feel confident that's a bit of a myth. You'll talk a lot but good luck trying to pull a woman.

Dadoma · 2015-09-04T11:52:37+00:00

Try estacy if you really must try a drug to achieve a more confident feeling. It's not that addicting and it makes you euphoric and heightens your sense of connection with others - meaning you feel sorry for the people around you and just want to help everyone out. Altruism at it's best. :) You feel like a saint among men. PS. A friend told me it's like that, I never tried it. ;)

TonyDAbsolute · 2015-09-04T14:59:02+00:00

Been there done that. It won't help. Just like exploring alcohol, or mdma, won't help. It will get you high. And when it wears off, your serotonin will fall and you'll want more.

Coke sucks. Stay far, far, away from it.

rawbface · 2015-09-04T18:01:28+00:00

"I do coke" seems like a hell of a DLV.

tails2tails · 2015-09-04T20:06:05+00:00

Honestly you're going about this all wrong.

You should be getting some good old Molly.

throwaway11coke · 2015-09-04T22:11:10+00:00

Allot of people here are saying stay away from it and they could be right as I don't really know you as a person. However my personal story is I was a pretty shy guy and always just sat in the background but I tried some coke from a mate and it really opened me up and helped me come out of my shell.

I did coke in what I would say small amounts, maybe 1 to 2 grams a week for about 5 months and it was best time of my life. Now I have moved on, I do not crave it and have not touched it for prob 2 years now but the one lasting effect is I find my self allot more confident and enjoy my self allot more when I go out.

If you know you don't easily get addicted to things and are good self control I would say give it a crack, just be careful.

lilhurt38 · 2015-09-08T11:26:08+00:00

That's how you get addicted to coke. First it's to experience the feeling of being super confident. Next, it's "I can't be super confident without coke." That being said, I've done it several times. Also, women who do a lot of coke are dtf.

2015-09-04T10:45:23+00:00

There is no drug that will make you feel more confident than alcohol.

2015-09-04T02:57:18+00:00

The fun thing about cocaine is that you don't know if it'll explode your heart the first time, or the thousandth time.

Title	Using cocaine as a way to feel what it's like to be really confident and then harness that feeling without it, is this a terrible idea?
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Date	September 4, 2015 1:44 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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