Should I say something about my face when it blushes or ignore it until they say something? Today I got called out and literally ran out the mall

Lets_Share_This_Name · 2015-10-18T01:29:15+00:00

What is going through your head while she's talking? I mean, are you really listening to what she is saying? Or are you thinking about how you look, or something to that affect?

Jacob_961 · 2015-10-18T06:22:05+00:00

No way around it. Say that you get red when you are nervous. Addressing a fault is better than ignoring it.

Nsnsbdb · 2015-10-18T01:54:42+00:00

I think I might be in my head I think I just get confused and I don't hear what she is saying and I'm thinking "am I cool now am I red am I sweaty oh shit oh man what she just say fuk oh fuk ". I try to be in the moment and breathe deep but this guilt voice and this fear voice Come and I just sabotage myself I used to hate myself but honestly right now I like myself I do well for myself I'm trying hard I deserve happiness I deserve experience and I deserve not to be fearful... Such an uncomfortable situation

JakeApproaches · 2015-10-18T09:31:39+00:00

getting red
sweating forehead, palms
butterflies in stomach
heat up your back
...

Mere physical sensations.

Be aware of them. Accept them. Avoid labeling them.

Physiology triggers them, because you've never been in that situation.

friend [to me]: Jake, your forehead is sweating.

me: [obviously] It was the first time I had cold approached a model.

Toxic72 · 2015-10-18T21:58:27+00:00

Sometimes I blush while chatting with a girl or get red from drinking and my typical response is, "yea cute girls make nervous." Keep a sarcastic tone or push her arm it's pretty easy to play this one off or make them blush back.

revente · 2015-10-18T09:27:58+00:00

Either ignore it or agree and amplify. For instance tell a girl you are an Apache and ask her whether she has done it with a true indian.

When i dance i get sweaty as a pig, not only on face but all of my clothes are soaking wet. Still it doesn't stop me! I've actually picked up my ex of 4 years with such dialogue:

-Haha you are so sweaty!

-Thats because i was dancing hard!

-I was too!

-You must be a lame dancer than, since you are still dry!

-Haha no!

-Prove! (i grabbed her hand and led her to the dancefloor)

Title	Should I say something about my face when it blushes or ignore it until they say something? Today I got called out and literally ran out the mall
Author	Nsnsbdb
Upvotes	20
Comments	13
Date	October 18, 2015 12:56 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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