How do you subtly indicate interest/flirt

chuffla · 2015-12-13T00:39:26+00:00

When you're having a conversation, make sure you're fully engaged. Lock your eyes, speak with your arms and show emotion with your face. Then, whenever you're making a point or saying something where all the focus is on you, make point of lightly brushing her vag with your hand.

Mortharis · 2015-12-12T21:29:56+00:00

Abundance mentality. There are hundreds, heck even thousands of women, that you find attractive and with which you can meet. Don't worry about "falling flat on your face".

No girl is "the one", there is always someone better. None of them are "special".

However, you need to make them feel special, that why you do not convey attraction subtly. You just tell her what you like about her right after you met her. Then ask her out. Opening yourself up to possibly being turned down, thats confidence. Girls LOVE confidence.

Just try to get into the "abundance mentality". Its difficult, but its worth it.

thaifoodandriesling · 2015-12-12T23:36:41+00:00

Fuck plausible deniability. Put your guts on the line. Lead by being open and emotive.

Smile, smirk, laugh with her. Make it fun, let her know you're hitting on her. Don't be creepy, but do be bold.

If you fall flat on your face, you're doing it right.

If she's into you, things will move quickly. If she's not into you, well great, you'll find that out sooner by being more open and direct. Keep it pushing.

Toughen up your ego. Get your reps in. You have to be willing to get rejected hard if you're going to have any success in the game.

Good luck!

joshsway · 2015-12-12T23:49:43+00:00

Don't worry about falling flat on your face. The system I like to use is: speech - non-sexual, eyes - sexual, touch- sexual. I like to use eyes and kino to express sexual interest, while using my words to display other values and attributes. The details are described more fully here: https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/the-3-modes-of-communication-and-how-to-use-them

TalkingCucumber · 2015-12-12T23:32:41+00:00

Confidence, funniness, one thing I try to do is make eye contact but only occasionally so as not to over-do it. Sly smiles, playful nudges, things like that.

bugxter · 2015-12-12T22:48:29+00:00

Body Language.

TheMinistryOfAwesome · 2015-12-13T08:08:49+00:00

You know, I think this strategy is the cornerstone of the pickup "don't do this" category. It makes you a simpering little pussy who will tread on egg shells around women so you don't inadvertently offend them with your sexual interest.

Note that i'm not caling you a pussy directly, I think everyone here has been like that at some point - myself included - but hopefully it will slap you in the face enough for you to realise that you don't really have to be subtle, or tread carefully around them.

If you're scared of failure you'll never take risks.

If you've been told outright that she doesn't want you/isn't interested or have been humiliated and you still feel like this, you haven't done it enough. Frankly, to be turned down isn't humiliating, just unfortunate. Think to yourself "I wonder how many people reemember that time that ManiacApple asked out that girl and got totally rejeted, what a fucking asshole" - you reckon that happens?

DaygameCoach · 2015-12-13T15:03:48+00:00

Dude, stop trying to half ass things. David Deda: "Real men aren't afraid of getting hurt" (they just deal with it, learn and move on). If you go to subtle, they think you are looking for a bowling partner and don't know to tell you if they have a BF.

Work on all the components of game including teasing/banter/body language/approach, etc. Read superflirt and superdate for body language of flirting.

And then, get out and flirt! If you get a NO, that's great because it doesn't waste your time like a MAYBE. A YES is great too. Don't even see it as rejection...see it as women who are not right for you (unavailable, uninterested, gay, only attracted to midgets with mohawks, etc) getting out of your way.

It's only humiliating and sad because you view it that way. The girl is doing you a favor by not wasting your time. Next!

Cuisine, daygamer.net

Title	How do you subtly indicate interest/flirt
Author	ManiacApple
Upvotes	23
Comments	10
Date	December 12, 2015 8:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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