The 'Blueprint Decoded' worth my time?

2013-02-09T18:59:25+00:00

It's not a replacement to going out. Do you go out 2+ times a week and actively approach? If no, go out and forget about this video.

nittutt · 2013-02-09T14:50:04+00:00

It's worth it.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-02-09T15:13:51+00:00

Depends on where you're at. You might want to watch Foundations first. But yeah it's worth watching.

DeeMore · 2013-02-09T15:39:53+00:00

It is totally worth it. What else are you going to do with your time? The first time I watched the Blueprint it was a real eye opener. You know that part where Tyler talks about how some part of it can fuck you up more than help you?

Yeah well that happened to me. I spent a year in this really weird, social phase where I thought I was super cool because I knew all this stuff but I was really a fucking idiot. I was a super newbie when that happened though so If your a bit more advanced I would not worry about it that much.

However, if it really is your first deep dive into this type of stuff definitely head Tyler's warnings. I mean, now I'm fine with the fact that I went through that phase because I came out of it and the Blueprint has enriched my life socially quite a bit but still, it was a year of fucked up social shit.

Overall though, a solid program. Stick it out. And fuck that Chode who always asks the dumbshit questions. He pissed me off

Rockitface · 2013-02-09T14:47:58+00:00

I'm about 15 hours in. So far it's just 15 hours of Tyler saying be confident and have fun.

leonthepr0fessional · 2013-02-09T17:19:41+00:00

It's totally worth it, it definitely put me in my place and given me a perspective.

You don't need to watch it aggressively. Maybe a video or 2 a week, jot down some key notes and pursue that mindset.

olivedoesntrhyme · 2013-02-09T17:55:36+00:00

I've been working my way through it for about a month now, trying to take it in and going over it, not even half way there yet but it's some really eye opening material (most of the times that is, putting aside the insane amount of repetition and ad-lib that Tyler does, which is still fun). The basic message is really simple (be confident, dgf), but there's some really reassuring things in there. It's entirely inner game and I wouldn't say it all applies to everyone, but it's helped me a lot because it really drives the message of confidence home. if you've been subduing yourself and trying to be humble spiralling into apologetic, like me, then it'll help you!

2013-02-09T18:52:01+00:00

Skip to flawless natural that's a great starting point and a bit outdated but the best foundations program for sure

readonlyuser · 2013-02-10T01:01:13+00:00

It's a condensation of a bunch of great sources and ideas that he compacted into a form he understands with a few supporting anecdotes. A lot of great information, especially if you haven't spent time doing the reading, etc.

2013-02-10T02:48:12+00:00

FUCK YES. I'm exaggerating a bit, but it almost felt as if the Blueprint "woke me up", so to speak. The Blueprint laid out a very strong foundation for my PUA journey.

IMO, it's the reason why I was able to learn so fast. You can grind and grind and work and work all day, but if you don't know what the fuck you're doing at all (for example, maybe you don't even know what mistakes you're making), you probably won't improve at all. But, if you have a very strong foundation of basic knowledge and principles, it's much easier to learn because you're not working blindly. If you make a mistake, you will at least know what mistake you made. If you have a strong foundation, you can also make more educated guesses by extrapolating information from that strong foundation.

And yeah, it's probably going to make you overthink a lot of things, but that's also caused by inexperience. It's one thing to understand the general theory, but it's another thing completely to implement it. Experience allows you to go "alright, this information should be applied here, that information should be applied there, I can combine these lessons over there, etc."

For most people, it's just a phase that they get over with time. It's sort of like when someone starts taking self-defense, and they start doing well in their class. But they get a little cocky because of "big fish in a small pond" syndrome, but their instructor just kicks their ass a couple times to snap the guy back into reality. No big deal, you learn and move on.

HorseLifer · 2013-02-09T18:23:54+00:00

Keep in mind that the blueprint is about IDENTITY-LEVEL change

This has nothing to do with outer game, and is purely for the men who are wondering "why am I bad with women, why am I not socially outgoing, and what can I do to fix it"

2013-02-09T23:30:01+00:00

spoiler alert : you could just read eckhart tolle 'the power of now' and specifically try to apply it to your social interactions, thats basically his big ending that 20 hours built up to.

ManiacApple · 2013-02-09T17:58:13+00:00

Can someone clarify what being in state is to me? I've basically gotten that it's when you don't have any internal dialogue about the interaction and that everything that you've learned just subconsciously flows out of you. But what happens when you think to yourself 'oh sweet I'm in state', then it's like oh I just had internal dialogue, 'oh fuck I'm out of state.'

Seems like a pretty stupid idea that is quite counter-intuitive to acknowledge

SpiderLeadership · 2022-09-17T15:05:30+00:00

It's literally the best self-developement course there is. Cultivating unconditional self-esteem and removing all the social conditioning, limiting beliefs and negative mindsets will totally transform your life.

I used to have massive social anxiety and panic attacks, but nowdays that past seems like a nightmare years in parallel universe. If you have any trouble talking to cool girls in the street, making friends easily or having friendly conversations with strangers - this course/audiobook is for you. It goes way beyond any dating advice, and give you more than you can even imagine. Thanks Owen!

SpiderLeadership · 2022-09-17T15:14:29+00:00

If you lack unconditional self-esteem and internal sense of self-worth, because of traumas and shitty/unsafe childhood environment, people try to fill that hole in their soul with logical sounding replacements. Nowdays people rather mutilate theirselves with surgery and hormones than reconnect to that total sence of self-acceptance we once had.

I'm not enough as myself, but if I own ten cool supercars, if everyone pays attention to me and if I have ten thousand tinder matches, then that must mean I have made it. Our egos need those logical reasons, numbers, comparizations, because it cant process unconditional self-love.

But in reality those temporary superficial replacements never work and external validation and approval never last. Just like junk food will never give you the true satisfaction of living addiction free life.Only way you return that rock solid feeling of self-worth, self-esteem and love for life is to do it yourself and to reconnect into that perspective from within.

Title	The 'Blueprint Decoded' worth my time?
Author	ManiacApple
Upvotes	12
Comments	30
Date	February 9, 2013 2:12 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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